Chapter 2435 The Meaning of Marriage

"Just order, no need to be so polite."

"I'm not being polite, but even though I've been in Shazhou for several months, I don't really understand Shazhou cuisine, so I don't know what to order."

"You are still so straightforward." Yang Yuxin smiled, took the menu and said, "Then I will obey your orders. Don't feel bad if you order too much."

"Although the salary is not high, having a meal is not enough to make you cry for three days." Qin Feng also made a joke.

Yang Yuxin did not order too much, just four dishes and a soup, one of which was a famous Jiangnan dish. This shows that this woman is very considerate.

"Would you like some wine?" Yang Yuxin suddenly asked.

"Ah You……"

"Why? Do you think women shouldn't drink?"

"No, no, no, that's not what I meant. It's just... okay." Qin Feng said with a smile.

Yang Yuxin asked the waiter to bring another bottle of wine.

We eat fried dishes and naturally drink white wine.

"Why did you suddenly think of treating me to a meal today?" Yang Yuxin asked, lifting her hair from her forehead.

"I want to apologize to you. Last time I promised you that I would participate in your club's competition. You even treated me to a meal and got me clothes from your club. But I ended up breaking the promise. I feel very embarrassed, so I thought of treating you to a meal tonight to express my apology." Qin Feng explained.

"So it's about this. I thought you treated me as a friend, and you just came to Shazhou and don't know many people here, so you wanted to invite me over for dinner and chat on this weekend. It seems I was happy for nothing." Yang Yuxin joked.

"We are friends, for sure, but I also want to apologize to you for what happened last time. You are right. Although I have been in Shazhou for several months and have many colleagues, I don't have many friends. You are the only one."

Qin Feng is no longer the Qin Feng of the past. He will not be at a loss for how to respond because of Yang Yuxin's words.

"I'll be much happier if you say that, although I know you are just trying to please me." Yang Yuxin smiled.

"Hahahaha, I'm speaking the truth." Qin Feng also laughed.

"I have some work to do tomorrow and the day after tomorrow, so I still can't participate in your club's activities. I'm really sorry." Qin Feng explained again.

"What's there to be sorry about? Club activities are voluntary, and we don't force anyone to participate. But you have to remember that you are already a member of our club. You must come to participate in activities when you have time on weekends. I will make sure to invite you every week. Don't think I'm annoying. This is my duty as the captain."

"Okay, I will try my best to cooperate with and support the captain's work and obey the organization's arrangements."

"You see, what you officials say is so hypocritical. I don't like to listen to it." Yang Yuxin smiled again.

The two chatted for a while, and when the dishes were served, Qin Feng took the initiative to open the bottle of white wine and poured a glass for himself and Yang Yuxin.

"I'm surprised you drink white wine. According to your personality, you probably don't like white wine. Red wine and coffee are your favorites." Qin Feng asked after clinking glasses with Yang Yuxin.

"You're right. During these years abroad, I have been deeply influenced by foreign culture. I like red wine, coffee, Western food, and Western literature, and I have some understanding of them."

"But that doesn't mean I reject Chinese culture. After all, I am Chinese and have Chinese blood in my veins. Some things in my bones cannot be changed."

"My father likes to drink and has a deep love for liquor. Since I was a child, there has been a large wine cellar in my home, which contains a variety of liquors. Since I was a child, I have followed my elder brother and younger brother to steal the liquor hidden by my father."

"My father is different from other parents. He never forbade us to drink. Instead, he personally poured wine for my brother and my younger brother during festivals and required us to drink. He said there is no Chinese man who doesn't drink."

"I have always been a strong-willed person since I was young. I never admit defeat, and I never admit defeat to boys. I thought, why can boys drink but I can't? So I always drink with them."

"Growing up in this kind of environment, can I drink some alcohol? But I usually don't. This is due to the prejudice against women in China. Generally, if you drink white wine at the dinner table, everyone will look at you with tinted glasses." Yang Yuxin chatted while drinking.

Qin Feng discovered that Yang Yuxin was a very good chatterbox and had a very high emotional intelligence. Although she was talking about her own affairs, the content of her conversation took into account the other person's feelings and was very skillful, making you naturally put yourself into the story she constructed.

Yang Yuxin talked to Qin Feng a lot about her growing up stories. What Qin Feng didn't know was that in Yang Yuxin's growth stories one after another, she gradually instilled the personality she created into Qin Feng, and subtly established the personality she created in Qin Feng's mind.

"Were you in Zhongjiang when I called you last time?" After three rounds of drinks, Yang Yuxin suddenly asked Qin Feng.

"Yes, I had something to do last week, so I went home temporarily and visited my daughter."

"Actually, I was quite surprised when you told me last time that you had a daughter. I always thought you were still unmarried."

"How old am I? In a few years I'll be almost 40, and other children my age will already be in junior high school."

"That's not surprising. I'm about the same age as you and I'm still unmarried." Yang Yuxin said.

"Everyone has a different attitude towards marriage. Your standards are too high and you haven't seen the right one." Qin Feng said perfunctorily.

"No, it's not that I have too high standards. I just don't plan to get married. Qin Feng, don't you think that marriage is the biggest trap and shackles set up by the world for everyone?" Yang Yuxin asked.

Qin Feng was stunned. This was the first time he had heard of this view. He asked, "Why do you ask that?"

"Look, there are only two reasons for marriage. The first is emotion, which is the so-called love."

"If two people love each other, they can naturally be together for life. Why do they have to get married? Isn't it purer to be together simply because of love? There is no need to involve dowry, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts, etc."

"And if we no longer love each other, we can break up at any time. We don't even need to divide our property or file for divorce. How great is that?"

"When you love someone, you stay together. When you don't love someone anymore, you separate. It's great. There will be fewer conflicts in society. Don't you think so?"

"The second function is naturally to reproduce, two people together to form a family and give birth to a child. In fact, I don't think it is necessary to get married. If two people love each other and want to have a child, then they can live together and raise the child. For the child, whether you are married or not, whether you are in a marital relationship or not, it does not affect your parent-child relationship with the child, right?"

"In my opinion, marriage has been the biggest burden on society for thousands of years," Yang Yuxin said seriously.