Chapter 409 Give up on yourself
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Feng Liu Xiao Er
"People are affected by the environment. Their status and people around them can affect a person's living habits, outlook on life and values. This is like you, when you first came to Bishan two years ago and now Are you the same you?" Hu Jiayun asked.
Qin Feng put down his chopsticks, lit a cigarette, and smoked quietly. He understood what Hu Jiayun wanted to express.
"You tell me first, does she love you?"
"Love!" Qin Feng replied affirmatively.
"Then do you love her?" Hu Jiayun then asked.
Qin Feng hesitated for a moment, then nodded and said, "Love."
"Do you want to marry her and be with her forever?" Hu Jiayun asked again.
"Think." Qin Feng was not vague this time.
"Then can you give up yourself and love each other without reservation?" Hu Jiayun immediately asked the fourth question.
"I..." Qin Feng hesitated.
"You hesitated, which means you haven't thought about this issue well, and it also means that you can't completely give up yourself to be with the other party." Hu Jiayun glanced at Qin Feng.
"Love is a romantic and impulsive emotional game, but marriage should be a rational social behavior. It is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along with each other."
"There are no two people who are perfectly compatible in the world. If you want a happy marriage, there must be one person who must change himself to adapt to the other's life."
"Actually, you know in your heart what the problem is between the two of you, Qin Feng. If you love her deeply, are willing to give up yourself for her, and don't feel bitter or wronged, then I support you to be with her."
"If you can't do it, either let her change to adapt to you, or..." Hu Jiayun stopped at this point, and didn't say the rest.
"Marriage is a lifetime thing. If you can't do it easily, you will suffer forever. Think about your sister and my previous marriage."
"Marriage is such a thing. In fact, there is no other secret. The most important thing is to be compatible with each other. This is like the two ends of a magnet. Only when the magnetic poles are right can they be closely attracted together and never separate. No matter how close it is, sooner or later it will bounce off."
"Qin Feng, if you want me to give you advice, I can't. Only you know what you want in your heart. As a sister, I only hope for one thing. No matter which girl the other party is, I only hope that you can live happily." Hu Jiayun looked at Qin Feng and said.
Qin Feng nodded and said, "Sister, I understand what you mean, I will think it through myself."
The next day, the group meeting was held, which represented the official start of the new year's work.
Qin Feng set two priorities for the work of Guanshan Town this year. The first focus is to solve the aftermath of the Baishan Coal Mine. The second is naturally to develop the economy, mainly attracting investment, which cannot be bypassed.
About a month after the New Year's Eve, Qin Feng was notified to go to the county party committee for a meeting.
Those who were notified of the meeting were the secretaries, mayors, and deputy secretaries of the townships and towns, and they were required to be present.
Qin Feng understands that this meeting is very important. If he guessed correctly, the new leadership team should be in place.
The well-informed already knew the inside story, but Qin Feng was not very interested in this, because Hu Jiayun had already told him the specific situation last time, so he didn't bother to inquire about the news.
On this day, Qin Feng, Lu Guohua, and Liu Xiaobing went to Shannan for a meeting. They drove two cars, and Liu Xiaobing sat in Qin Feng's car.
Although Liu Xiaobing took over as the deputy secretary, he still served as the director of the General Affairs Office. Moreover, Liu Xiaobing's awareness had not improved at all, and he still followed Qin Feng closely as his housekeeper and attendant.
"Secretary, what will this be about today? The notice is very serious." Liu Xiaobing asked.
"The results of the 113 case should come out soon, some of the leaders involved in the case will be subject to disciplinary action, and the appointment of new leaders should also come out. If there is no accident, today is the meeting of the new leadership team, otherwise the party committees in various places will not The people in charge are all called over for a meeting." Qin Feng analyzed.
"I heard that Minister Luo took over as deputy secretary."
"You are quite well informed."
"There are rumors in Bishan that Minister Luo has become Deputy Secretary Luo, and Deng Xincheng may reach another level."
"Who did you hear?"
"It's all rumored, and I have gossip. It is said that Deng Xincheng's younger sister is the daughter-in-law of Minister Luo. Not many people know about it. A classmate of mine happened to be in the organization department of the county party committee. He told me about it after drinking. .” Liu Xiaobing said.
Qin Feng frowned, thinking of Deng Xincheng's acquaintance at Luo Xuemin's house last time, he somewhat believed this to be true.
If there really was some kind of special relationship between Deng Xincheng and Luo Xuemin, then it is doubtful whether Luo Xuemin played a role in Qin Feng being snatched away by Deng Xincheng as secretary of Bishan last time.
Qin Feng couldn't help thinking. After thinking for a while, he shook his head. The matter has passed, and it's useless to think about it.
"These are gossip. Deng Xincheng took over as party secretary not long ago. Although he has made achievements in Bishan, it is not so easy to go up a step. Luo Xuemin does not have the qualifications for promotion, and he does not even have the right to recommend him. It's just that they are transferred to a better place at the same level." Qin Feng said.
"Secretary, you said that you have made such a great contribution this time, so the higher-ups should show something, right? Now it is rumored everywhere that you are going to be promoted to deputy county magistrate." Liu Xiaobing was very excited.
"It's fine if you tell me about this matter, don't go out and say it, do you hear me?" Qin Feng said to Liu Xiaobing seriously.
Qin Feng put down his chopsticks, lit a cigarette, and smoked quietly. He understood what Hu Jiayun wanted to express.
"You tell me first, does she love you?"
"Love!" Qin Feng replied affirmatively.
"Then do you love her?" Hu Jiayun then asked.
Qin Feng hesitated for a moment, then nodded and said, "Love."
"Do you want to marry her and be with her forever?" Hu Jiayun asked again.
"Think." Qin Feng was not vague this time.
"Then can you give up yourself and love each other without reservation?" Hu Jiayun immediately asked the fourth question.
"I..." Qin Feng hesitated.
"You hesitated, which means you haven't thought about this issue well, and it also means that you can't completely give up yourself to be with the other party." Hu Jiayun glanced at Qin Feng.
"Love is a romantic and impulsive emotional game, but marriage should be a rational social behavior. It is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along with each other."
"There are no two people who are perfectly compatible in the world. If you want a happy marriage, there must be one person who must change himself to adapt to the other's life."
"Actually, you know in your heart what the problem is between the two of you, Qin Feng. If you love her deeply, are willing to give up yourself for her, and don't feel bitter or wronged, then I support you to be with her."
"If you can't do it, either let her change to adapt to you, or..." Hu Jiayun stopped at this point, and didn't say the rest.
"Marriage is a lifetime thing. If you can't do it easily, you will suffer forever. Think about your sister and my previous marriage."
"Marriage is such a thing. In fact, there is no other secret. The most important thing is to be compatible with each other. This is like the two ends of a magnet. Only when the magnetic poles are right can they be closely attracted together and never separate. No matter how close it is, sooner or later it will bounce off."
"Qin Feng, if you want me to give you advice, I can't. Only you know what you want in your heart. As a sister, I only hope for one thing. No matter which girl the other party is, I only hope that you can live happily." Hu Jiayun looked at Qin Feng and said.
Qin Feng nodded and said, "Sister, I understand what you mean, I will think it through myself."
The next day, the group meeting was held, which represented the official start of the new year's work.
Qin Feng set two priorities for the work of Guanshan Town this year. The first focus is to solve the aftermath of the Baishan Coal Mine. The second is naturally to develop the economy, mainly attracting investment, which cannot be bypassed.
About a month after the New Year's Eve, Qin Feng was notified to go to the county party committee for a meeting.
Those who were notified of the meeting were the secretaries, mayors, and deputy secretaries of the townships and towns, and they were required to be present.
Qin Feng understands that this meeting is very important. If he guessed correctly, the new leadership team should be in place.
The well-informed already knew the inside story, but Qin Feng was not very interested in this, because Hu Jiayun had already told him the specific situation last time, so he didn't bother to inquire about the news.
On this day, Qin Feng, Lu Guohua, and Liu Xiaobing went to Shannan for a meeting. They drove two cars, and Liu Xiaobing sat in Qin Feng's car.
Although Liu Xiaobing took over as the deputy secretary, he still served as the director of the General Affairs Office. Moreover, Liu Xiaobing's awareness had not improved at all, and he still followed Qin Feng closely as his housekeeper and attendant.
"Secretary, what will this be about today? The notice is very serious." Liu Xiaobing asked.
"The results of the 113 case should come out soon, some of the leaders involved in the case will be subject to disciplinary action, and the appointment of new leaders should also come out. If there is no accident, today is the meeting of the new leadership team, otherwise the party committees in various places will not The people in charge are all called over for a meeting." Qin Feng analyzed.
"I heard that Minister Luo took over as deputy secretary."
"You are quite well informed."
"There are rumors in Bishan that Minister Luo has become Deputy Secretary Luo, and Deng Xincheng may reach another level."
"Who did you hear?"
"It's all rumored, and I have gossip. It is said that Deng Xincheng's younger sister is the daughter-in-law of Minister Luo. Not many people know about it. A classmate of mine happened to be in the organization department of the county party committee. He told me about it after drinking. .” Liu Xiaobing said.
Qin Feng frowned, thinking of Deng Xincheng's acquaintance at Luo Xuemin's house last time, he somewhat believed this to be true.
If there really was some kind of special relationship between Deng Xincheng and Luo Xuemin, then it is doubtful whether Luo Xuemin played a role in Qin Feng being snatched away by Deng Xincheng as secretary of Bishan last time.
Qin Feng couldn't help thinking. After thinking for a while, he shook his head. The matter has passed, and it's useless to think about it.
"These are gossip. Deng Xincheng took over as party secretary not long ago. Although he has made achievements in Bishan, it is not so easy to go up a step. Luo Xuemin does not have the qualifications for promotion, and he does not even have the right to recommend him. It's just that they are transferred to a better place at the same level." Qin Feng said.
"Secretary, you said that you have made such a great contribution this time, so the higher-ups should show something, right? Now it is rumored everywhere that you are going to be promoted to deputy county magistrate." Liu Xiaobing was very excited.
"It's fine if you tell me about this matter, don't go out and say it, do you hear me?" Qin Feng said to Liu Xiaobing seriously.
