Chapter 308 A good daughter-in-law is hard to find
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Lu Feng Shi De Bai Gong Zhu
"It's several times more expensive than the gift given to your sister-in-law. Now you know its value!"
"It's so expensive! Then I have to take a good look at it, but I can't let anyone take it away.
Mom, don't worry, since you have given me such an important thing, I promise to complete the task! "
"Then go soon."
"Okay, let's go now. Dad, you really don't want to waste any time! Are you coming back at this hour?"
"Are you coming back late at this time?"
"It's not too late. I want to deliver something to my sister-in-law. Is my mother in the house? You'd better go in quickly!"
"Ok!"
"came back!"
"Well, how are you? Are you tired?"
"Fortunately, I'm not tired of dealing with other people!"
"If you don't like it, just don't let them in."
"Did you hear that?"
"Well, I happened to hear everything when I walked in!"
"Then what do you think of these two unmarried daughters-in-law at eldest brother's house?"
"It's not that good, not even half as good as the daughter of the Song family!"
"I think so too. How can they compare with Yingying! I don't know how my eldest brother and sister-in-law would allow such a daughter-in-law to come in?"
"I think they feel that they haven't had two children in many years, so they won't pay much attention to this kind of thing. Otherwise, the relationship between them and their children will be even weaker!"
"But the person who was deceived in the end. Aren't they their children?"
"Then I don't know? They have only been focusing on their own careers these years, how can they have any thoughts about their children!
Now I feel that I need the company of my children as I get older, but my children are willing to be with them for this reason. All these things complement each other! "
"Listening to what you said, it seems that after so many years, they have grown up with me, but I have not educated them well!"
"I didn't mean that. If I go by your theory, then why don't our four children behave like this!
I would say that they put their career before their children. As for other problems, it is a lack of communication.
For example, these four children in our family, whether it is you, me, or the four of them, are not allowed to have a single phone call that week unless they have tasks. Otherwise, will our children have a good relationship with their parents? "
"That's right!"
"So you are overthinking it. These nephews in the family have grown up and are adults. It is good to grow up beside us without making any detours. As for other things, it has nothing to do with us.
Moreover, their parents are still here, so the headaches are also their headaches. It’s good for us to take good care of our children. "
"This is what you said. If there is any problem then, you will have to ask me to help solve it!"
"What if we really encounter a problem? That's also my eldest brother's business and has nothing to do with us. The choice of daughter-in-law is decided by them. She is not our daughter-in-law, so she can't control that much."
"I don't know how these two kids fall in love with these girls. I don't like any of them anyway."
"Who knows this? Maybe he was temporarily blinded, or maybe this girl is bad. Who can tell?
Besides, after they get married, they won’t live with us, and if they come back to see our parents in the future, they won’t be able to stay long. "
"That said, I'm afraid that when our mother wants to have a great-grandson, and let the two of them live at home, it won't be possible to just throw them out.
As you said just now, you heard what they said. I don't believe that Xiuyuan and his two brothers didn't tell them about our family's situation.
But if you listen to what they said, it seems that our family's things are equal to Xiuyuan's, or if they are mine, the elders in the family can give them to whomever they want.
I don't really care about this, I just think these two people are short-sighted.
You were just thinking about the children at home. If one of them didn't grow up beside me, wouldn't I leave something for the children to think about when that time comes?
Good guy, what's going on?Even when the elderly are here, they start to worry about things. Is this kind of person really suitable to enter the Shen family?
The key is that they haven't married yet?Just like that, I'm afraid our Shen family will also have some trouble when she gets married. "
"Just keep this in your stomach! No matter whether something like this happens in the future, I will tell the children at home in advance.
It just so happens that the eldest brother is getting married and everyone in the family is here. Then we can have a meeting and talk things over. "
"That's not good?"
"There's nothing wrong with it. When the daughter of the Song family marries into our Shen family, she will be the sister-in-law of their generation. She and Zhengze will have to be involved in the affairs of the younger generation.
Although our Shen family doesn't talk about matters according to the eldest son and legitimate son, the four of us brothers and sisters started a family and started a family. We may say that we have not lived together for so many years, but we have never separated our families.
But even so, it's almost like a family separation, because I'm always in Beijing.If our parents follow us, we can't let the younger generation think that we are taking advantage of it.
He also said that it would be better to open it, do you think clearly?No matter how far away we are, there will always be contact, don’t you understand?My parents are both here, so they have to come back and visit from time to time.
If one day the two old men are no longer here, and they stop contacting each other just because of this matter, it will only mean that their fate is over. "
"It won't be like this if you get it, not to mention other people, the eldest brother, the second sister, and the fourth brother will not be like this.
As for the other people, even if they are angry inside, they will not show it too much, and they will definitely protect the Shen family on the outside.
Don't give up, even if your current position is not as good as that of your eldest brother, it is still in Beijing. As long as your sister-in-law still wants your eldest brother to move up, she will not go too far. "
"No matter what she thinks, it's impossible. It's impossible for a family of brothers to live in the same city. It might be okay to go to other places.
However, at my current age, it is not easy for him to climb up the ladder. Don’t forget that he will retire in a few years. "
"Then after you retire, can't you go back to the rest home in Beijing to retire?"
"Then we have to wait until my sister-in-law retreats, and whether she can come back will have to be approved by her superiors."
+However, they already have a family in Beijing, so if they don’t live in a rest house, the problem can be easily solved.
"So, as long as these two girls marry into the Shen family, there will be more opportunities to meet in the future?
This is not a good thing. This short-sighted person will always be short-sighted. "
"Yes, but fortunately they are in a relationship now and are not married. I don't know if there have been any changes in the meantime?"
"Yes, how long have they been dating now! They have to talk for a while before they can get married."
"It's so expensive! Then I have to take a good look at it, but I can't let anyone take it away.
Mom, don't worry, since you have given me such an important thing, I promise to complete the task! "
"Then go soon."
"Okay, let's go now. Dad, you really don't want to waste any time! Are you coming back at this hour?"
"Are you coming back late at this time?"
"It's not too late. I want to deliver something to my sister-in-law. Is my mother in the house? You'd better go in quickly!"
"Ok!"
"came back!"
"Well, how are you? Are you tired?"
"Fortunately, I'm not tired of dealing with other people!"
"If you don't like it, just don't let them in."
"Did you hear that?"
"Well, I happened to hear everything when I walked in!"
"Then what do you think of these two unmarried daughters-in-law at eldest brother's house?"
"It's not that good, not even half as good as the daughter of the Song family!"
"I think so too. How can they compare with Yingying! I don't know how my eldest brother and sister-in-law would allow such a daughter-in-law to come in?"
"I think they feel that they haven't had two children in many years, so they won't pay much attention to this kind of thing. Otherwise, the relationship between them and their children will be even weaker!"
"But the person who was deceived in the end. Aren't they their children?"
"Then I don't know? They have only been focusing on their own careers these years, how can they have any thoughts about their children!
Now I feel that I need the company of my children as I get older, but my children are willing to be with them for this reason. All these things complement each other! "
"Listening to what you said, it seems that after so many years, they have grown up with me, but I have not educated them well!"
"I didn't mean that. If I go by your theory, then why don't our four children behave like this!
I would say that they put their career before their children. As for other problems, it is a lack of communication.
For example, these four children in our family, whether it is you, me, or the four of them, are not allowed to have a single phone call that week unless they have tasks. Otherwise, will our children have a good relationship with their parents? "
"That's right!"
"So you are overthinking it. These nephews in the family have grown up and are adults. It is good to grow up beside us without making any detours. As for other things, it has nothing to do with us.
Moreover, their parents are still here, so the headaches are also their headaches. It’s good for us to take good care of our children. "
"This is what you said. If there is any problem then, you will have to ask me to help solve it!"
"What if we really encounter a problem? That's also my eldest brother's business and has nothing to do with us. The choice of daughter-in-law is decided by them. She is not our daughter-in-law, so she can't control that much."
"I don't know how these two kids fall in love with these girls. I don't like any of them anyway."
"Who knows this? Maybe he was temporarily blinded, or maybe this girl is bad. Who can tell?
Besides, after they get married, they won’t live with us, and if they come back to see our parents in the future, they won’t be able to stay long. "
"That said, I'm afraid that when our mother wants to have a great-grandson, and let the two of them live at home, it won't be possible to just throw them out.
As you said just now, you heard what they said. I don't believe that Xiuyuan and his two brothers didn't tell them about our family's situation.
But if you listen to what they said, it seems that our family's things are equal to Xiuyuan's, or if they are mine, the elders in the family can give them to whomever they want.
I don't really care about this, I just think these two people are short-sighted.
You were just thinking about the children at home. If one of them didn't grow up beside me, wouldn't I leave something for the children to think about when that time comes?
Good guy, what's going on?Even when the elderly are here, they start to worry about things. Is this kind of person really suitable to enter the Shen family?
The key is that they haven't married yet?Just like that, I'm afraid our Shen family will also have some trouble when she gets married. "
"Just keep this in your stomach! No matter whether something like this happens in the future, I will tell the children at home in advance.
It just so happens that the eldest brother is getting married and everyone in the family is here. Then we can have a meeting and talk things over. "
"That's not good?"
"There's nothing wrong with it. When the daughter of the Song family marries into our Shen family, she will be the sister-in-law of their generation. She and Zhengze will have to be involved in the affairs of the younger generation.
Although our Shen family doesn't talk about matters according to the eldest son and legitimate son, the four of us brothers and sisters started a family and started a family. We may say that we have not lived together for so many years, but we have never separated our families.
But even so, it's almost like a family separation, because I'm always in Beijing.If our parents follow us, we can't let the younger generation think that we are taking advantage of it.
He also said that it would be better to open it, do you think clearly?No matter how far away we are, there will always be contact, don’t you understand?My parents are both here, so they have to come back and visit from time to time.
If one day the two old men are no longer here, and they stop contacting each other just because of this matter, it will only mean that their fate is over. "
"It won't be like this if you get it, not to mention other people, the eldest brother, the second sister, and the fourth brother will not be like this.
As for the other people, even if they are angry inside, they will not show it too much, and they will definitely protect the Shen family on the outside.
Don't give up, even if your current position is not as good as that of your eldest brother, it is still in Beijing. As long as your sister-in-law still wants your eldest brother to move up, she will not go too far. "
"No matter what she thinks, it's impossible. It's impossible for a family of brothers to live in the same city. It might be okay to go to other places.
However, at my current age, it is not easy for him to climb up the ladder. Don’t forget that he will retire in a few years. "
"Then after you retire, can't you go back to the rest home in Beijing to retire?"
"Then we have to wait until my sister-in-law retreats, and whether she can come back will have to be approved by her superiors."
+However, they already have a family in Beijing, so if they don’t live in a rest house, the problem can be easily solved.
"So, as long as these two girls marry into the Shen family, there will be more opportunities to meet in the future?
This is not a good thing. This short-sighted person will always be short-sighted. "
"Yes, but fortunately they are in a relationship now and are not married. I don't know if there have been any changes in the meantime?"
"Yes, how long have they been dating now! They have to talk for a while before they can get married."
