Chapter 329 Mother and Daughter Talk
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Lu Feng Shi De Bai Gong Zhu
"So you and dad had a plan for a long time?"
"Yeah? I just didn't tell you!"
"What will happen to the grandparents then? Do you take them with you when you go out to play?"
"You don't have to worry about this. Isn't your uncle retiring soon? He will take care of your grandparents by then."
"That's right. Then grandma can focus on looking after the children at my cousin's house. Otherwise, she would have to come home every time, which would be troublesome."
"You? Don't say anything outside, you know?"
"I know Mom, I just want to talk to you.
Right mom?After the second brother gets married, the third brother will be next. I don’t know when the third brother will get married? "
"What? Do you want to get married?"
"Not me? I haven't thought of this yet!"
"That means Xiao Yan has this idea!"
"Yeah! You asked me, but I said I would ask you and Dad then and give him an answer!"
"Your dad and I don't have any objections to this matter. The most important thing is up to you, as long as you figure it out."
"Oh!"
"What's wrong? You don't seem to be in high spirits? Or is it that Xiao Yan did something wrong?"
"No, I'm afraid I won't get along with her mother by then. What should I do?"
"Why do you think so?"
"Look at you and grandma. You used to be closer than mother and daughter, but what about now? Isn't there also a gap?"
"You? What are you thinking about? Although the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been an eternal problem since ancient times.
But the relationship between each mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is different. What if you really have no choice?Then when it comes to major matters, let the other party find it hard to be polite. As for other matters, let the man talk to his mother himself.
Another thing is, no matter how busy he is, he always asks Xiao Yan to call his mother, so that her mother will not feel that her son has forgotten his mother after marrying a daughter-in-law, you know? "
"That's right? Okay, I'll talk to him later."
"Fortunately, you don't live together even after you get married. In addition, the Yan family has many descendants. Even Xiao Yan's parents have three children, and Xiao Yan is the youngest.
No matter what happens in the future, his brothers and sisters will be at the forefront. You just have to do what your sister-in-law does.
On issues that do not involve principles, don't go beyond Xiao Yan's sister-in-law. You must know that your income is not very good, but the money in your hands is definitely not small.
In this case, you can't go past her. I think even if you plan to talk about marriage, the bride price given by their family will not be more than that of Xiao Yan's sister-in-law. Don't dislike the gift given by others then. Less, you know? "
"Mom, it's not like you don't know that I'm not interested in this. It's their family's attitude to give more or less, but it can't be more than others, and it can't be lower than hers. You must know that our family and your daughter are not bad, okay? "
"That's what I said, but you just need to know what's going on. You can't say this to Xiao Yan, you know?"
"Mom, don't worry! I won't tell."
"Not only can you not tell him about this, but you can't tell him about the dowry that your mother will give you when the time comes. You must know that no matter when the time comes, a girl will have a year's worth of private money in her hands, and it will be convenient for her to do anything.
One more thing, remember, no matter who asks you about the dowry, don’t tell them, especially Xiao Yan’s sister-in-law. Even though people are very enthusiastic about you now, you must know that once the other party knows that you have money, , when someone encounters a situation, will you borrow it or not?
In addition to this, you have to remember not to be too high-profile in front of your husband's family, and keep a low profile.
I'm afraid that when the time comes, other people in their family will think that you are my daughter. No matter what happens, the first thing they will think of is you. In this way, even if your life is going well, you may not be comfortable. "
“Mom, don’t worry, let Yan Liang handle this kind of matter when the time comes.
As for the money you just mentioned, that is even more impossible. My money did not come from the strong wind, so why should I give it to others?
Just because our family is rich, do they think I have to give them money? "
"You! Why do you always get angry? I'm just talking about this situation.
Fortunately, the Yan family is not bad. No matter what, everyone who works has some money, even if they don't have much money. In addition, Mr. Yan is still here, and others will not say anything openly even if they have ideas. ?
What you just need to rest is whether they will borrow money behind your back. If such a thing happens, just go to your Xiao Yan's mother directly, she can solve it.
If you are a branch of the Yan family, you don't have to worry about this. You are a junior, and all matters are handled by the elders.
After you get married, you just need to live your own life, and you don’t need to worry about other things! "
"Mom, were you like this before?"
"Your mother, I can do whatever I want. At that time, your grandparents were decentralized and your uncles were serving as soldiers in different places. There was no such problem at all.
Besides, because they are busy with work, they put their children in front of your mother to raise them. How dare they do this?
Not to mention other people, just your eldest aunt and your fourth aunt. Even if they have opinions now, have you ever seen them make trouble in front of your mother and me? "
"No, never! You know, if I hadn't raised their children in the first place, they wouldn't be where they are now."
"So, aunt and others will not embarrass you with words or other things!"
"It's not just this. There are many reasons for this. The most important thing is that I have to stand upright. This is the most important thing."
"I understand, Mom, don't worry! I won't embarrass you."
"It doesn't matter whether you're embarrassed or not, as long as you live a good life, that's better than anything else."
"Well! I'll have to talk to Yan Liang later. I can't just marry myself out of nowhere."
"That's right, you're not too old now, so it's okay to get married a few years later. It's just that when you give birth to a child, your physical recovery will not be as good as it is now."
"Oh no!"
"Why not? If you get married this year and have a baby tomorrow, you don't need to go out of your way to lose weight. In less than a year, your figure will basically be back to what it is now.
But once this woman reaches the age of 30 and has another child, she will have to put in at least twice as much effort as she does now.
However, this also depends on your personal physique. You must know that you who are soldiers usually need training from time to time, and it is not difficult to recover. "
"I was scared to death. Did I think I would become an aunt from now on?"
"What are you thinking about? You can't go too far when it comes to losing weight. The most important thing is what suits you, you know."
"Yeah? I just didn't tell you!"
"What will happen to the grandparents then? Do you take them with you when you go out to play?"
"You don't have to worry about this. Isn't your uncle retiring soon? He will take care of your grandparents by then."
"That's right. Then grandma can focus on looking after the children at my cousin's house. Otherwise, she would have to come home every time, which would be troublesome."
"You? Don't say anything outside, you know?"
"I know Mom, I just want to talk to you.
Right mom?After the second brother gets married, the third brother will be next. I don’t know when the third brother will get married? "
"What? Do you want to get married?"
"Not me? I haven't thought of this yet!"
"That means Xiao Yan has this idea!"
"Yeah! You asked me, but I said I would ask you and Dad then and give him an answer!"
"Your dad and I don't have any objections to this matter. The most important thing is up to you, as long as you figure it out."
"Oh!"
"What's wrong? You don't seem to be in high spirits? Or is it that Xiao Yan did something wrong?"
"No, I'm afraid I won't get along with her mother by then. What should I do?"
"Why do you think so?"
"Look at you and grandma. You used to be closer than mother and daughter, but what about now? Isn't there also a gap?"
"You? What are you thinking about? Although the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been an eternal problem since ancient times.
But the relationship between each mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is different. What if you really have no choice?Then when it comes to major matters, let the other party find it hard to be polite. As for other matters, let the man talk to his mother himself.
Another thing is, no matter how busy he is, he always asks Xiao Yan to call his mother, so that her mother will not feel that her son has forgotten his mother after marrying a daughter-in-law, you know? "
"That's right? Okay, I'll talk to him later."
"Fortunately, you don't live together even after you get married. In addition, the Yan family has many descendants. Even Xiao Yan's parents have three children, and Xiao Yan is the youngest.
No matter what happens in the future, his brothers and sisters will be at the forefront. You just have to do what your sister-in-law does.
On issues that do not involve principles, don't go beyond Xiao Yan's sister-in-law. You must know that your income is not very good, but the money in your hands is definitely not small.
In this case, you can't go past her. I think even if you plan to talk about marriage, the bride price given by their family will not be more than that of Xiao Yan's sister-in-law. Don't dislike the gift given by others then. Less, you know? "
"Mom, it's not like you don't know that I'm not interested in this. It's their family's attitude to give more or less, but it can't be more than others, and it can't be lower than hers. You must know that our family and your daughter are not bad, okay? "
"That's what I said, but you just need to know what's going on. You can't say this to Xiao Yan, you know?"
"Mom, don't worry! I won't tell."
"Not only can you not tell him about this, but you can't tell him about the dowry that your mother will give you when the time comes. You must know that no matter when the time comes, a girl will have a year's worth of private money in her hands, and it will be convenient for her to do anything.
One more thing, remember, no matter who asks you about the dowry, don’t tell them, especially Xiao Yan’s sister-in-law. Even though people are very enthusiastic about you now, you must know that once the other party knows that you have money, , when someone encounters a situation, will you borrow it or not?
In addition to this, you have to remember not to be too high-profile in front of your husband's family, and keep a low profile.
I'm afraid that when the time comes, other people in their family will think that you are my daughter. No matter what happens, the first thing they will think of is you. In this way, even if your life is going well, you may not be comfortable. "
“Mom, don’t worry, let Yan Liang handle this kind of matter when the time comes.
As for the money you just mentioned, that is even more impossible. My money did not come from the strong wind, so why should I give it to others?
Just because our family is rich, do they think I have to give them money? "
"You! Why do you always get angry? I'm just talking about this situation.
Fortunately, the Yan family is not bad. No matter what, everyone who works has some money, even if they don't have much money. In addition, Mr. Yan is still here, and others will not say anything openly even if they have ideas. ?
What you just need to rest is whether they will borrow money behind your back. If such a thing happens, just go to your Xiao Yan's mother directly, she can solve it.
If you are a branch of the Yan family, you don't have to worry about this. You are a junior, and all matters are handled by the elders.
After you get married, you just need to live your own life, and you don’t need to worry about other things! "
"Mom, were you like this before?"
"Your mother, I can do whatever I want. At that time, your grandparents were decentralized and your uncles were serving as soldiers in different places. There was no such problem at all.
Besides, because they are busy with work, they put their children in front of your mother to raise them. How dare they do this?
Not to mention other people, just your eldest aunt and your fourth aunt. Even if they have opinions now, have you ever seen them make trouble in front of your mother and me? "
"No, never! You know, if I hadn't raised their children in the first place, they wouldn't be where they are now."
"So, aunt and others will not embarrass you with words or other things!"
"It's not just this. There are many reasons for this. The most important thing is that I have to stand upright. This is the most important thing."
"I understand, Mom, don't worry! I won't embarrass you."
"It doesn't matter whether you're embarrassed or not, as long as you live a good life, that's better than anything else."
"Well! I'll have to talk to Yan Liang later. I can't just marry myself out of nowhere."
"That's right, you're not too old now, so it's okay to get married a few years later. It's just that when you give birth to a child, your physical recovery will not be as good as it is now."
"Oh no!"
"Why not? If you get married this year and have a baby tomorrow, you don't need to go out of your way to lose weight. In less than a year, your figure will basically be back to what it is now.
But once this woman reaches the age of 30 and has another child, she will have to put in at least twice as much effort as she does now.
However, this also depends on your personal physique. You must know that you who are soldiers usually need training from time to time, and it is not difficult to recover. "
"I was scared to death. Did I think I would become an aunt from now on?"
"What are you thinking about? You can't go too far when it comes to losing weight. The most important thing is what suits you, you know."
