Chapter 346 Experience
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Lu Feng Shi De Bai Gong Zhu
"That's right, regarding the Yan family's affairs, you haven't married into the Yan family yet, so try not to get involved in their family's affairs.
Even if you get married in the future, as a junior, you should not talk too much. Your future parents-in-law are here and they will take care of it.
If I really smell it in front of you one day, it’s okay to say a few words. "
"I know, Mom, don't worry! By the way, Mom, I've been back for so long, why haven't I seen my grandparents? Where have they gone? Why haven't they come back at this time?
In the past, I would sit here and chat early, but today, surprisingly, I didn't see the two of them. "
"Your grandparents went to visit their old comrades. They said they were staying in a rest house for a few days. I don't know what happened to them, and they didn't let their family members follow them."
"Ah! Are you thinking about introducing someone to someone again? I heard that since I came back last time, not only my third brother has been targeted, but also many people who have not started a family or established a career have been arranged by their families. On a blind date.
And I heard that it must be done within a time limit, otherwise you will be punished and you will not be able to hide no matter how far away you are. "
"Really? Anyone's children are forced to go on a blind date!"
"Except for my Sanhe, my aunt's cousin, and my fourth uncle's eighth brother, all the other elder brothers who are old enough and don't have a partner are on blind dates.
Anyway, the arrangements for this matter are quite tight, and many people who are not yet married at their age feel like dying when they hear this matter.
Like the political commissar in charge of us, he is very busy with this matter now.
They give it to male soldiers who are not married and have families everywhere. I wish that all those in the army who were female and had no partners would be given to the front line one by one. And I heard that there have been several couples. "
"Are there not many female soldiers there?"
"There aren't many, right? But as long as gay men are old and have no family, their family backgrounds are not simple. But don't they all become rich in a short time?
Many female soldiers are also willing to marry into such families, and the unmarried gay men themselves are not bad except that they are a little older.
Besides, 32 or [-] years old is not too old in this era, not to mention that the entire country is advocating late marriage and late childbearing, so there is nothing good about getting married later.
And I also heard that, regardless of whether they have good family backgrounds or not, as long as they think this girl is good and there is no partner, the old guys will start to take advantage of their own children. "
"why?"
"Why else? There are a few bad female soldiers in the army, but they are no worse than those wealthy ladies in all aspects.
Moreover, how can the advantages of our female soldiers be matched by those wealthy ladies? "
"It's true, at least female soldiers have very strong ability to withstand pressure. Not only their determination when facing troubles is not comparable to others, but also one day, the men in the family cannot handle the trouble. Female soldiers are also better than other women in this aspect. Comrades are much stronger.
And the most important thing is that their psychological quality is not comparable to that of ordinary gay men, let alone lesbians. "
"So, they have long since introduced the only female soldiers in the army. I heard that they were targeted by the superiors when they first came here. If possible, they can introduce them to their children after observing them for a few years. As long as they look at each other, what? Conditions are not a problem.
I don’t know when gay men started to be so worthless. Didn’t we hear that when we were young, country people liked boys the most?
Why is it that now that we are about to start a family and start a business, lesbians are more popular. "
"This is the consequence of different levels of education. In the future, the gap in the ratio of men to women will become wider and wider..."
"Really? But there's really nothing we can do about this.
However, I recently heard that our female soldiers were basically arranged on blind dates by the political commissar during our breaks. "
"Then you political commissars have almost become professional matchmakers."
"Isn't it? She is no worse than my Aunt Zhang. The situation of both male and female soldiers is very familiar.
We joked privately that if one day she changes her job and returns to a local area, she might as well just start a matchmaking agency to get the income, otherwise it will be a waste of her talent? "
"It's true to say that, but you can't say that, you know?
Also, they are working, and they are also doing political and ideological work. If it were you, wouldn't you be able to do it? "
"Dad, you look down on people."
"It's not that your father and I look down on people, but that you are simply not suitable for political work."
"ok I admit it."
"Since you know this, don't go around talking about it. Otherwise, your political commissar's job is already difficult to do. If you talk about it, it will be even more difficult."
"Dad, I know and understand. Isn't this just talking to you at home? No one else can get any information from me."
"That's fine. It's difficult to solve personal problems in the first place. Wouldn't it be even harder if you said something in the middle? You have to know that you should never interfere with things that shouldn't be interfered with. Do you understand?"
"I know, Dad. By the way, Mom, I heard that you are going to attend a class reunion in a few days?"
"Yes! Why do you want to go with me, mom?"
"If I don't go, I'm afraid it will involve me again. If I'm asked if I have a partner, or someone introduces me to someone, it will be troublesome.
If you don’t talk about other things, then there will be no partner. What if they also want to marry our family?
It’s just that I have a partner now. This thoughtful person, as long as he sees that my third brother and I are not married, he will probably think that there is still a chance. If something happens by then, it will be troublesome, so I still treat him honestly. Come on!
It's hard to get a few days off, so it's better to take a good rest. "
"That's good. In that case, just be responsible for cleaning at home if you have nothing to do!"
"Okay, I'm good at this, I guarantee to complete the task!"
"To be honest, I haven't seen each other for so many years, and I don't know what has become of everyone. This person is the most unable to withstand the test of time."
"Isn't that right? In the blink of an eye, not only the children have grown up, but also the grandchildren are now several years old."
"It's true, we are all getting old without knowing it."
"Mom, you are not old. People who don't know your age will tell you that you are only in your early forties!"
"Yes, what our daughter said is absolutely true, but you can't tell how old you are at all."
"really?"
"Really, I never lied to you."
"I can promise."
"Okay! Then I'll treat it as real."
"It's really good, isn't it?"
No matter how well you maintain your appearance, you are still just over fifty. Even if your mentality is still the same as that of a young person, only you know how much you have gone through.
Even if you get married in the future, as a junior, you should not talk too much. Your future parents-in-law are here and they will take care of it.
If I really smell it in front of you one day, it’s okay to say a few words. "
"I know, Mom, don't worry! By the way, Mom, I've been back for so long, why haven't I seen my grandparents? Where have they gone? Why haven't they come back at this time?
In the past, I would sit here and chat early, but today, surprisingly, I didn't see the two of them. "
"Your grandparents went to visit their old comrades. They said they were staying in a rest house for a few days. I don't know what happened to them, and they didn't let their family members follow them."
"Ah! Are you thinking about introducing someone to someone again? I heard that since I came back last time, not only my third brother has been targeted, but also many people who have not started a family or established a career have been arranged by their families. On a blind date.
And I heard that it must be done within a time limit, otherwise you will be punished and you will not be able to hide no matter how far away you are. "
"Really? Anyone's children are forced to go on a blind date!"
"Except for my Sanhe, my aunt's cousin, and my fourth uncle's eighth brother, all the other elder brothers who are old enough and don't have a partner are on blind dates.
Anyway, the arrangements for this matter are quite tight, and many people who are not yet married at their age feel like dying when they hear this matter.
Like the political commissar in charge of us, he is very busy with this matter now.
They give it to male soldiers who are not married and have families everywhere. I wish that all those in the army who were female and had no partners would be given to the front line one by one. And I heard that there have been several couples. "
"Are there not many female soldiers there?"
"There aren't many, right? But as long as gay men are old and have no family, their family backgrounds are not simple. But don't they all become rich in a short time?
Many female soldiers are also willing to marry into such families, and the unmarried gay men themselves are not bad except that they are a little older.
Besides, 32 or [-] years old is not too old in this era, not to mention that the entire country is advocating late marriage and late childbearing, so there is nothing good about getting married later.
And I also heard that, regardless of whether they have good family backgrounds or not, as long as they think this girl is good and there is no partner, the old guys will start to take advantage of their own children. "
"why?"
"Why else? There are a few bad female soldiers in the army, but they are no worse than those wealthy ladies in all aspects.
Moreover, how can the advantages of our female soldiers be matched by those wealthy ladies? "
"It's true, at least female soldiers have very strong ability to withstand pressure. Not only their determination when facing troubles is not comparable to others, but also one day, the men in the family cannot handle the trouble. Female soldiers are also better than other women in this aspect. Comrades are much stronger.
And the most important thing is that their psychological quality is not comparable to that of ordinary gay men, let alone lesbians. "
"So, they have long since introduced the only female soldiers in the army. I heard that they were targeted by the superiors when they first came here. If possible, they can introduce them to their children after observing them for a few years. As long as they look at each other, what? Conditions are not a problem.
I don’t know when gay men started to be so worthless. Didn’t we hear that when we were young, country people liked boys the most?
Why is it that now that we are about to start a family and start a business, lesbians are more popular. "
"This is the consequence of different levels of education. In the future, the gap in the ratio of men to women will become wider and wider..."
"Really? But there's really nothing we can do about this.
However, I recently heard that our female soldiers were basically arranged on blind dates by the political commissar during our breaks. "
"Then you political commissars have almost become professional matchmakers."
"Isn't it? She is no worse than my Aunt Zhang. The situation of both male and female soldiers is very familiar.
We joked privately that if one day she changes her job and returns to a local area, she might as well just start a matchmaking agency to get the income, otherwise it will be a waste of her talent? "
"It's true to say that, but you can't say that, you know?
Also, they are working, and they are also doing political and ideological work. If it were you, wouldn't you be able to do it? "
"Dad, you look down on people."
"It's not that your father and I look down on people, but that you are simply not suitable for political work."
"ok I admit it."
"Since you know this, don't go around talking about it. Otherwise, your political commissar's job is already difficult to do. If you talk about it, it will be even more difficult."
"Dad, I know and understand. Isn't this just talking to you at home? No one else can get any information from me."
"That's fine. It's difficult to solve personal problems in the first place. Wouldn't it be even harder if you said something in the middle? You have to know that you should never interfere with things that shouldn't be interfered with. Do you understand?"
"I know, Dad. By the way, Mom, I heard that you are going to attend a class reunion in a few days?"
"Yes! Why do you want to go with me, mom?"
"If I don't go, I'm afraid it will involve me again. If I'm asked if I have a partner, or someone introduces me to someone, it will be troublesome.
If you don’t talk about other things, then there will be no partner. What if they also want to marry our family?
It’s just that I have a partner now. This thoughtful person, as long as he sees that my third brother and I are not married, he will probably think that there is still a chance. If something happens by then, it will be troublesome, so I still treat him honestly. Come on!
It's hard to get a few days off, so it's better to take a good rest. "
"That's good. In that case, just be responsible for cleaning at home if you have nothing to do!"
"Okay, I'm good at this, I guarantee to complete the task!"
"To be honest, I haven't seen each other for so many years, and I don't know what has become of everyone. This person is the most unable to withstand the test of time."
"Isn't that right? In the blink of an eye, not only the children have grown up, but also the grandchildren are now several years old."
"It's true, we are all getting old without knowing it."
"Mom, you are not old. People who don't know your age will tell you that you are only in your early forties!"
"Yes, what our daughter said is absolutely true, but you can't tell how old you are at all."
"really?"
"Really, I never lied to you."
"I can promise."
"Okay! Then I'll treat it as real."
"It's really good, isn't it?"
No matter how well you maintain your appearance, you are still just over fifty. Even if your mentality is still the same as that of a young person, only you know how much you have gone through.
