Chapter 356 Dowry
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Lu Feng Shi De Bai Gong Zhu
"Ah! No way! In other words, even if I live here, is it possible for me to get spanked?"
"As long as you don't make any mistakes, you won't get spanked!"
"Really? Grandma?"
"Of course it's true! If you don't believe me, ask your grandpa!"
"grandfather?"
"As long as you obey, you won't get spanked."
"Then I'll be obedient."
Children are like this. As long as you talk to them properly, even if they don't understand for a while, they will understand later.
It can be said that it is rare to have such a leisurely time when you can sit down and have a meal.
The only thing is that the whole family doesn't come back at all. In their profession, they may not be able to come back several times throughout the year, so they have long been used to it.
Fortunately, you are still young and you can visit them if you miss them. Even if you get old in the future, it will not be a big problem.
In this era, it is no longer 30 or [-] years ago. It takes several days to take a train to the Northeast.
If you have an emergency, you can just take a plane, and places farther away can be reached in two or three hours.
Going to other places, whether by train, plane, or even by car, is no problem.
This is the development of the times, and everything is entering modernization.
Similarly, people used to have less needs, but now people have more needs, and they need to be diversified, but isn't this just an opportunity?
If you seize this opportunity, you will be able to develop very well, but this cannot be done just by talking about it.
"Ma'am, do you have your phone number?"
"Who is it? Why did you come to your home?"
"It's the uncle from Miss Ruohua's fiancé's family!"
"How could it be him?"
"I don't know! The other party said they would call back in 10 minutes!"
"Okay, I know, I'll just sit here and wait for a while."
"Old man, this is the Yan family?"
"I don't know. Let's go in and listen. This boy from the Yan family must be up to no good!"
"I really can't tell."
"Mom and Dad!"
"Don't worry about us, just go about your business!"
"I'm not busy, I'm just waiting here for the call!"
"bell bell"
"Hurry up and just pretend we're not here."
At such an old age, he is not a young man. No matter how loud the call is, he may not be able to hear clearly.
Just listen if you want to!Is there something shameful?
"Hello!"
"Director Li, it's me, Yan..."
"I know it's you, what's wrong?"
"It's nothing, I just want to treat you to a meal and thank you in person."
"Thank you, thank you for what? And thank you for coming?"
"I did what you asked Ruohua to convey to me, and I did as you said, and I just got through this difficult time, so I want to thank you in person."
"It turns out that this is not worth mentioning. If you can listen to other people's opinions, it means that you are not blinded. So all this must be attributed to yourself.
As for thanking you, I accept it, but forget about eating. I can finally relax now, but I can't find something to do for myself. "
"Okay then! If you are busy, I won't disturb you."
"it is good!"
"Mianmian, why did the Yan family want to call?"
"That's right, shouldn't it be Yan Liang who wants to call our house? What's wrong with him?"
"It doesn't matter who calls my parents. Besides, Yan Liang calls to see Ruohua, and he calls to talk to me about business matters. This is different!"
"Business? Aren't you two still doing business?"
"No, I just gave him a few words. I called him today to thank him."
"So that's how it is. Why do you think the Yan family called us to invite us to dinner?"
"What? You want to marry Ruohua so soon?"
"I just don't want to, the Yan family also wants to marry their granddaughter-in-law as soon as possible?"
"What? What you mean by this is that the Yan family has asked someone to question your two elders."
"Well! I asked Lao Wang to come over and ask me a few days ago, and I pushed back. You and the third child are Ruohua's parents, so I should ask you about this.
Although the two of us are the child's grandparents, there are some things that you as parents should nod and agree to. "
"It turns out that I asked you, Mr. Wang, but since I asked you, the second elder, it doesn't matter if you nod in agreement?"
"That's not possible. How can this matter go beyond the two of you?"
"that is!"
"In that case, when someone comes to ask next time, I won't shirk anymore. These two children have talked for a long enough time, and we all know the situation of the Yan family.
Their matter should indeed be resolved. No matter whether the daughter is married at a high price or at a low price, my daughter, Li Mianmian, is not the water thrown away by the married daughter.
If you dare to bully her, I will find any way to seek justice for my daughter. "
"We, the Shen family, are not the ones who can be bullied by others, but marrying a girl is still different from marrying a daughter-in-law.
It just so happens that you are on a break recently. Do you think you need to prepare Ruohua's dowry first? Even though I did save some with my children before, why did I find that the things I saved before are a bit outdated? "
"Mom, there is actually no need to prepare too many things for her. You must know that the Yan family is also a big family. It is not good for her to prepare too many things."
"But if we don't prepare enough, and the other daughters-in-law of the Yan family see that there aren't many things, will they think that we don't pay enough attention to Ruohua?"
"I would say, just follow the example of the eldest daughter-in-law of the Yan family and spend [-]% more to prepare.
This way, there will be more stuff, so they don't have to say anything.Even if it is thought to be less, it is still more than them. "
"Dad, no need, just prepare it according to Sister-in-law Yan Liang's dowry, but the things should be the best.
Since then, she has neither surpassed her sister-in-law nor let others look down upon her.
What's more, this is only something on the surface, who can know it secretly? "
"Then do you plan to prepare more money or other things for her? You must know that both Zhengze and Junde are married. Will the two granddaughter-in-laws have any objections by then?"
“Mom, whoever likes my things has opinions, and I can give it to whomever I like, and it has nothing to do with them.
What's more, even if I give Ruohua and take it to the Yan family, the Yan family won't get a penny. "
"No, what do you mean by that?"
"Nothing! There must be formal procedures for giving my things to Ruohua. As long as it is stated above that it is only for her, even if one day she and Yan Liang can't get along and get divorced, these things will not be included in the marital property."
"No, do you mean to give Ruohua a lot of things?"
“Not much, just a few properties, others like company shares, investment stocks and nothing else.
Besides, even if I give it, she can't accept it all. After all, her profession is different from others. "
"As long as you don't make any mistakes, you won't get spanked!"
"Really? Grandma?"
"Of course it's true! If you don't believe me, ask your grandpa!"
"grandfather?"
"As long as you obey, you won't get spanked."
"Then I'll be obedient."
Children are like this. As long as you talk to them properly, even if they don't understand for a while, they will understand later.
It can be said that it is rare to have such a leisurely time when you can sit down and have a meal.
The only thing is that the whole family doesn't come back at all. In their profession, they may not be able to come back several times throughout the year, so they have long been used to it.
Fortunately, you are still young and you can visit them if you miss them. Even if you get old in the future, it will not be a big problem.
In this era, it is no longer 30 or [-] years ago. It takes several days to take a train to the Northeast.
If you have an emergency, you can just take a plane, and places farther away can be reached in two or three hours.
Going to other places, whether by train, plane, or even by car, is no problem.
This is the development of the times, and everything is entering modernization.
Similarly, people used to have less needs, but now people have more needs, and they need to be diversified, but isn't this just an opportunity?
If you seize this opportunity, you will be able to develop very well, but this cannot be done just by talking about it.
"Ma'am, do you have your phone number?"
"Who is it? Why did you come to your home?"
"It's the uncle from Miss Ruohua's fiancé's family!"
"How could it be him?"
"I don't know! The other party said they would call back in 10 minutes!"
"Okay, I know, I'll just sit here and wait for a while."
"Old man, this is the Yan family?"
"I don't know. Let's go in and listen. This boy from the Yan family must be up to no good!"
"I really can't tell."
"Mom and Dad!"
"Don't worry about us, just go about your business!"
"I'm not busy, I'm just waiting here for the call!"
"bell bell"
"Hurry up and just pretend we're not here."
At such an old age, he is not a young man. No matter how loud the call is, he may not be able to hear clearly.
Just listen if you want to!Is there something shameful?
"Hello!"
"Director Li, it's me, Yan..."
"I know it's you, what's wrong?"
"It's nothing, I just want to treat you to a meal and thank you in person."
"Thank you, thank you for what? And thank you for coming?"
"I did what you asked Ruohua to convey to me, and I did as you said, and I just got through this difficult time, so I want to thank you in person."
"It turns out that this is not worth mentioning. If you can listen to other people's opinions, it means that you are not blinded. So all this must be attributed to yourself.
As for thanking you, I accept it, but forget about eating. I can finally relax now, but I can't find something to do for myself. "
"Okay then! If you are busy, I won't disturb you."
"it is good!"
"Mianmian, why did the Yan family want to call?"
"That's right, shouldn't it be Yan Liang who wants to call our house? What's wrong with him?"
"It doesn't matter who calls my parents. Besides, Yan Liang calls to see Ruohua, and he calls to talk to me about business matters. This is different!"
"Business? Aren't you two still doing business?"
"No, I just gave him a few words. I called him today to thank him."
"So that's how it is. Why do you think the Yan family called us to invite us to dinner?"
"What? You want to marry Ruohua so soon?"
"I just don't want to, the Yan family also wants to marry their granddaughter-in-law as soon as possible?"
"What? What you mean by this is that the Yan family has asked someone to question your two elders."
"Well! I asked Lao Wang to come over and ask me a few days ago, and I pushed back. You and the third child are Ruohua's parents, so I should ask you about this.
Although the two of us are the child's grandparents, there are some things that you as parents should nod and agree to. "
"It turns out that I asked you, Mr. Wang, but since I asked you, the second elder, it doesn't matter if you nod in agreement?"
"That's not possible. How can this matter go beyond the two of you?"
"that is!"
"In that case, when someone comes to ask next time, I won't shirk anymore. These two children have talked for a long enough time, and we all know the situation of the Yan family.
Their matter should indeed be resolved. No matter whether the daughter is married at a high price or at a low price, my daughter, Li Mianmian, is not the water thrown away by the married daughter.
If you dare to bully her, I will find any way to seek justice for my daughter. "
"We, the Shen family, are not the ones who can be bullied by others, but marrying a girl is still different from marrying a daughter-in-law.
It just so happens that you are on a break recently. Do you think you need to prepare Ruohua's dowry first? Even though I did save some with my children before, why did I find that the things I saved before are a bit outdated? "
"Mom, there is actually no need to prepare too many things for her. You must know that the Yan family is also a big family. It is not good for her to prepare too many things."
"But if we don't prepare enough, and the other daughters-in-law of the Yan family see that there aren't many things, will they think that we don't pay enough attention to Ruohua?"
"I would say, just follow the example of the eldest daughter-in-law of the Yan family and spend [-]% more to prepare.
This way, there will be more stuff, so they don't have to say anything.Even if it is thought to be less, it is still more than them. "
"Dad, no need, just prepare it according to Sister-in-law Yan Liang's dowry, but the things should be the best.
Since then, she has neither surpassed her sister-in-law nor let others look down upon her.
What's more, this is only something on the surface, who can know it secretly? "
"Then do you plan to prepare more money or other things for her? You must know that both Zhengze and Junde are married. Will the two granddaughter-in-laws have any objections by then?"
“Mom, whoever likes my things has opinions, and I can give it to whomever I like, and it has nothing to do with them.
What's more, even if I give Ruohua and take it to the Yan family, the Yan family won't get a penny. "
"No, what do you mean by that?"
"Nothing! There must be formal procedures for giving my things to Ruohua. As long as it is stated above that it is only for her, even if one day she and Yan Liang can't get along and get divorced, these things will not be included in the marital property."
"No, do you mean to give Ruohua a lot of things?"
“Not much, just a few properties, others like company shares, investment stocks and nothing else.
Besides, even if I give it, she can't accept it all. After all, her profession is different from others. "
