Chapter 384 Crucial
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Lu Feng Shi De Bai Gong Zhu
"Then can we use the same method? To be honest with you elders, we have discussed the issue of children's education privately.
Now the country allows employees to have one child. When they grow up, they will all be only children. What if we don’t get older?
Just like what Dad said, if we encounter any problems in the future, there won’t even be anyone to help make decisions.
If the brother and sister don't have a good relationship, they really won't be able to find anyone close to them. "
"That's true, but for children like them, the method of educating them 30 or [-] years ago may not work anymore."
"What should I do? Third brother and sister, you often go abroad or to Hong Kong City. Have you ever seen how people there educate their children?"
"Sister-in-law, in fact, whether it is a Western country or a Hong Kong city, when it comes to educating children, most of them still have their parents accompany them and guide them by example."
"Be with us? This is possible for us. Our family doesn't refer to them as fathers, but as mothers. None of them have jobs.
Not to mention their young people, even we all had jobs back then.
If you weren't there at the beginning, just a few of them, I really don't know how to arrange it. "
"It's true, Third Sister-in-law, do you think this is happening?"
"Looking at it myself, why not find a compromise?"
"Compromise, no matter how you compromise, we can't let them separate their time!"
"Why not? I think for their sake, it is better to let the children go to school here and live in their own homes on Saturdays, Sundays, winter and summer vacations."
"Not to mention, in this way, they can live together not only every day, but also in the morning and afternoon.
After being together for a long time, isn't this feeling deeper than others? "
"Sister-in-law, that's you. We don't know when the two of us are here?"
"That's right, sister-in-law, our grandson must also be included in this."
"This?"
"Second sister, fourth brother and sister, you can just send it over when the time comes, but the conditions must be agreed upon, and the child must wait until he is old enough to go to kindergarten.
At that time, not only did the children grow up and be able to communicate well, at least they also grew up beside their parents and knew their parents' love for them. "
"That's right."
"But let me say, it won't work just for us to say it here, they also need their parents' consent to do so.
Later, I will ask my friends in Hong Kong City to mail over some books on how to educate children there, and we may also take a look.
But I still feel that the situation in every country is different.
The situation of every family is also different, and the corresponding education methods are definitely different. "
"There is nothing wrong with what I said. You don't know that in the community where we live now, children of their age are enrolled in many interest classes.
Not to mention there is no time to play, even when eating, I think it is enough to eat. "
"Sister-in-law, that's not the case!"
"Fourth younger brother and sister, don't believe me. I'm not trying to scare you. If you don't believe me, just ask your elder brother."
"From the fourth family, what your sister-in-law said is not wrong at all. I not only heard about this, I also secretly went to see it. To be honest, I just paid someone to take the children to play."
"Is it because you have money but no place to spend it?"
"How is it possible? In my opinion, they are cultivating children to socialize from an early age."
"Ah! What can they remember at their age?"
"If you don't remember it, it won't also help your parents to open up connections."
"That's right. They all go to the same kindergarten. After a long time, don't their parents know each other?
This would be okay if there was nothing to do or if there was no business dealings. If so, it would be a great help to my parents. "
"What about us?"
"There is no need to send them to any aristocratic kindergarten or school. If you really want them to start socializing with each other from an early age, there is no school as good as ours. Don't forget where this is."
"That's right. It doesn't matter who lives here. If anyone moves here, they will be famous people."
"So, we don't have to spend this wasted money."
"In this case, let the children come here to go to school. When they are not in school, they can go back to their parents' place."
"But in this case, parents, how can we provide living expenses for the children? We can't always let the third aunt pay for us!"
"Daughter-in-law Xiuyuan, am I, your third aunt, the one who is short of money?"
"Just because you are not in need, we can't spend all your money. We have to let the children know that they will not only have to spend money to live in the third grandma's house, but they will also have to spend a lot of money to save them from looking back and think that we are doing this." What about his parents who don’t care about him?”
"That's right, Third Aunt, letting the child live with you is enough to cause you trouble. How can I ask you to pay for it?"
"Okay, how much money do you have, I still don't know, I think I'd better forget it!"
"This?"
“Three younger siblings, we pay for the children’s money, and our parents know how much their monthly salary is.
Not to mention sending the children to any aristocratic school, even here, it is barely enough.
If this is combined with life, it will definitely not be enough.
We only have two sons and one grandchild. Our Shen family is not the kind of family that values boys over girls.
We, as grandparents, pay this money, but you can’t earn it from us. "
What the sister-in-law said is not wrong at all. If the money is really given, it will not only be their family, but also two families behind. If the daughter has a child and plans to send it to her, that is fine.
As for whether to pay for the nephew, it depends on how the Yan family arranges it.
"Okay! Then do as sister-in-law says! Sister-in-law, I think you and your eldest brother can move here."
"This?"
"Don't refute what I said, listen to me first. I just heard from my two nieces and nephews that these two little guys are not ordinary.
If we raise it here, we won’t be able to rely on our parents or us to educate it.
Not to mention that the child's father has not officially retired yet. Even if he retires, he can't take care of it?
I'm not very busy at work now, but I might have to go out for a while. I don't feel comfortable leaving the children to my parents to take care of them. After all, they are here at their age.
It would be bad if something happens, what do you think? "
"Sister-in-law, I think what the third sister-in-law said is right. You can move here first, and when we both retire, we will also move here.
It would be so lively if everyone lived together. "
"Okay! But we can collect rent then."
Now the country allows employees to have one child. When they grow up, they will all be only children. What if we don’t get older?
Just like what Dad said, if we encounter any problems in the future, there won’t even be anyone to help make decisions.
If the brother and sister don't have a good relationship, they really won't be able to find anyone close to them. "
"That's true, but for children like them, the method of educating them 30 or [-] years ago may not work anymore."
"What should I do? Third brother and sister, you often go abroad or to Hong Kong City. Have you ever seen how people there educate their children?"
"Sister-in-law, in fact, whether it is a Western country or a Hong Kong city, when it comes to educating children, most of them still have their parents accompany them and guide them by example."
"Be with us? This is possible for us. Our family doesn't refer to them as fathers, but as mothers. None of them have jobs.
Not to mention their young people, even we all had jobs back then.
If you weren't there at the beginning, just a few of them, I really don't know how to arrange it. "
"It's true, Third Sister-in-law, do you think this is happening?"
"Looking at it myself, why not find a compromise?"
"Compromise, no matter how you compromise, we can't let them separate their time!"
"Why not? I think for their sake, it is better to let the children go to school here and live in their own homes on Saturdays, Sundays, winter and summer vacations."
"Not to mention, in this way, they can live together not only every day, but also in the morning and afternoon.
After being together for a long time, isn't this feeling deeper than others? "
"Sister-in-law, that's you. We don't know when the two of us are here?"
"That's right, sister-in-law, our grandson must also be included in this."
"This?"
"Second sister, fourth brother and sister, you can just send it over when the time comes, but the conditions must be agreed upon, and the child must wait until he is old enough to go to kindergarten.
At that time, not only did the children grow up and be able to communicate well, at least they also grew up beside their parents and knew their parents' love for them. "
"That's right."
"But let me say, it won't work just for us to say it here, they also need their parents' consent to do so.
Later, I will ask my friends in Hong Kong City to mail over some books on how to educate children there, and we may also take a look.
But I still feel that the situation in every country is different.
The situation of every family is also different, and the corresponding education methods are definitely different. "
"There is nothing wrong with what I said. You don't know that in the community where we live now, children of their age are enrolled in many interest classes.
Not to mention there is no time to play, even when eating, I think it is enough to eat. "
"Sister-in-law, that's not the case!"
"Fourth younger brother and sister, don't believe me. I'm not trying to scare you. If you don't believe me, just ask your elder brother."
"From the fourth family, what your sister-in-law said is not wrong at all. I not only heard about this, I also secretly went to see it. To be honest, I just paid someone to take the children to play."
"Is it because you have money but no place to spend it?"
"How is it possible? In my opinion, they are cultivating children to socialize from an early age."
"Ah! What can they remember at their age?"
"If you don't remember it, it won't also help your parents to open up connections."
"That's right. They all go to the same kindergarten. After a long time, don't their parents know each other?
This would be okay if there was nothing to do or if there was no business dealings. If so, it would be a great help to my parents. "
"What about us?"
"There is no need to send them to any aristocratic kindergarten or school. If you really want them to start socializing with each other from an early age, there is no school as good as ours. Don't forget where this is."
"That's right. It doesn't matter who lives here. If anyone moves here, they will be famous people."
"So, we don't have to spend this wasted money."
"In this case, let the children come here to go to school. When they are not in school, they can go back to their parents' place."
"But in this case, parents, how can we provide living expenses for the children? We can't always let the third aunt pay for us!"
"Daughter-in-law Xiuyuan, am I, your third aunt, the one who is short of money?"
"Just because you are not in need, we can't spend all your money. We have to let the children know that they will not only have to spend money to live in the third grandma's house, but they will also have to spend a lot of money to save them from looking back and think that we are doing this." What about his parents who don’t care about him?”
"That's right, Third Aunt, letting the child live with you is enough to cause you trouble. How can I ask you to pay for it?"
"Okay, how much money do you have, I still don't know, I think I'd better forget it!"
"This?"
“Three younger siblings, we pay for the children’s money, and our parents know how much their monthly salary is.
Not to mention sending the children to any aristocratic school, even here, it is barely enough.
If this is combined with life, it will definitely not be enough.
We only have two sons and one grandchild. Our Shen family is not the kind of family that values boys over girls.
We, as grandparents, pay this money, but you can’t earn it from us. "
What the sister-in-law said is not wrong at all. If the money is really given, it will not only be their family, but also two families behind. If the daughter has a child and plans to send it to her, that is fine.
As for whether to pay for the nephew, it depends on how the Yan family arranges it.
"Okay! Then do as sister-in-law says! Sister-in-law, I think you and your eldest brother can move here."
"This?"
"Don't refute what I said, listen to me first. I just heard from my two nieces and nephews that these two little guys are not ordinary.
If we raise it here, we won’t be able to rely on our parents or us to educate it.
Not to mention that the child's father has not officially retired yet. Even if he retires, he can't take care of it?
I'm not very busy at work now, but I might have to go out for a while. I don't feel comfortable leaving the children to my parents to take care of them. After all, they are here at their age.
It would be bad if something happens, what do you think? "
"Sister-in-law, I think what the third sister-in-law said is right. You can move here first, and when we both retire, we will also move here.
It would be so lively if everyone lived together. "
"Okay! But we can collect rent then."
