Chapter 398 Guidance for children
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Lu Feng Shi De Bai Gong Zhu
"Having said that, why did you agree to let my eldest brother and the others move here with their grandchildren?"
"It's not because my parents are getting older. They want to live happily together as a family. Similarly, I can also take off the burden on me.
How nice is this, even if you work, you are not very busy, and even if you take care of the elderly, there are others.
Besides, even if there are aunts at home to help, I am not the eldest daughter-in-law after all. My parents are here at the same age. Some things still have to be discussed with my elder brothers and sisters-in-law. I cannot make decisions alone.
In the eyes of you men, maybe this is nothing?But if I don’t say it, if my sister-in-law doesn’t say it, someone else will still say it.
Like this morning, if I didn't hear it with my own ears, I could pass it off as not knowing.
But when you hear this, it is impossible to pretend that this kind of thing has not happened. "
"Right."
"Similarly, even my sister-in-law doesn't care, but after a long time, it will definitely not work. After all, we have children of our own, and we have to help them."
"It's true, you can't just let the old man get away with it.
Even if parents and children don't have any objections, they can't stand someone fanning the flames. "
"That's what I mean. Another thing is that now every household basically has one child, especially the working-class people. Whether it's a boy or a girl, they only have one child.
In fact, sometimes it is not suitable to train a big family. Putting them together like this can actually educate them better.
Whether the next generation of children can be independent is not something we can just talk about, but needs to be taught by words and deeds. "
"That's right, that's right, I want to tell you that I plan to apply for retirement in advance regarding Jing's family coming to Beijing to serve."
"Retire early? Why would you think so?"
"Don't be anxious first. Listen to me carefully."
"Okay, you say."
“I mean, don’t the Jing family want power and benefits?
Then if I take the initiative to leave, a position will be vacant in the Beijing Military Region. I still don't believe it.
He will not take this opportunity to choose to stay in the capital city. You must know that being able to stay in the capital city does not mean that anyone can stay if they want to.
As long as he stayed, the Jing family would have nothing to worry about the fourth child.
At least they don't have a suitable candidate to replace the fourth child.
Unless there are other people eyeing my position, or someone is also eyeing the fourth position.
But no matter who it is, their flaws will be revealed during this change of position.
We can take this opportunity to find out who is behind this.
Even if you can't break in, you can still lock them firmly.
In this way, we can also follow the clues and see what the people behind them want to do?
If not, we can exclude each other. "
"Yes, since you have decided, I won't stop you.
Anyway, retiring early is no different from retiring on the day, and the difference is only one year.
If I can retire early, I can at least spend more time with my parents at home. "
"Okay, as long as you have no objections, I will submit the application later."
"Okay, how can I have myself? I just want to know, what do they want to do?
If they want power, I'm afraid you won't be able to satisfy them just by withdrawing early.
Power is important. Without power, power will come from nowhere.
If I want money, it's up to them to take the assets in my hand. They can just take it if they want, but they don't have to live to take it.
This has no power, no money, where does the power come from? After such a drama, we and the others were idle and the Jing family died too slowly. "
"That's true, but we should still be careful. After all, it's not clear how many people will dislike us this time."
"I know."
"That's good. It's getting late. Are you hungry? Do you want to go out to eat something? Even if you feel unhappy, don't feel bad about your body..."
"Okay, let's go eat first. I won't do anything that will injure the enemy a thousand times and cause eight hundred losses to myself."
"That's good."
How can I not eat? I didn’t eat much at noon, but I can still do without eating at night.
Even if you want to stay in shape, it’s not like this.
Also, the confrontation between them cannot be resolved in a short while. Before the problem is resolved, although they cannot relax, they cannot stop eating.
What's more, they also need to let them know that Li Mianmian is not someone they can mess up with just a few words.
Even they have to have real abilities.
"Brothers and sisters, you must be hungry! Sister Wu made your favorite dish. Let's eat first and do other things after eating."
"I know sister-in-law, I'm worrying you."
"It's okay. Since I retired, apart from taking care of my children, my only hobby is cooking.
Besides, since I moved here, I can’t even get involved in cooking, so why do I need to do it? "
"That's too troublesome for you."
"Okay, let's stop saying these polite words as a family."
"Okay, by the way, where are my parents?"
"Your eldest brother took several children to the front yard to invite their parents. The two elder brothers have been playing there with the children today, and they don't feel tired.
If it were me, I wouldn't have such good physical strength. "
"Isn't that right? When I do other things, no matter how tired I am at work, I never feel that I am old. But when I play with the children, I really have to admit that I am old."
"Yes, they say that children are full of energy, and I understand it now.
When their father was still young, I didn't feel tired even though I had him with him for several years.
Why, when it comes time to raise my grandson, if I am asked to raise two children by myself, I am really afraid that I will not be able to raise them. "
"I am the same. I am raising two children by myself. When I can't see them in the blink of an eye, I don't know where to go."
"Grandma, are you and grandma talking bad about me?"
"You heard with that ear that your grandma was talking bad about you."
"Grandpa, I heard it with both ears!"
"Then what are you asking?"
"Grandpa, don't I just want to confirm?"
"Then have you confirmed it?"
"I want to confirm, but grandma didn't answer my question. Grandma, why don't you answer my question? Or do you think grandma has a guilty conscience."
"Grandma won't feel guilty, and grandma didn't say anything bad about you. What she said to your eldest grandma is true and happened, so it's not a bad word."
"But you and grandma are talking about me. Isn't it bad words?"
"Who told you that when you talk about someone, you always say bad things?"
"It is clearly stated that as long as someone goes behind his back and speaks about himself, he is speaking ill of himself."
"It's not because my parents are getting older. They want to live happily together as a family. Similarly, I can also take off the burden on me.
How nice is this, even if you work, you are not very busy, and even if you take care of the elderly, there are others.
Besides, even if there are aunts at home to help, I am not the eldest daughter-in-law after all. My parents are here at the same age. Some things still have to be discussed with my elder brothers and sisters-in-law. I cannot make decisions alone.
In the eyes of you men, maybe this is nothing?But if I don’t say it, if my sister-in-law doesn’t say it, someone else will still say it.
Like this morning, if I didn't hear it with my own ears, I could pass it off as not knowing.
But when you hear this, it is impossible to pretend that this kind of thing has not happened. "
"Right."
"Similarly, even my sister-in-law doesn't care, but after a long time, it will definitely not work. After all, we have children of our own, and we have to help them."
"It's true, you can't just let the old man get away with it.
Even if parents and children don't have any objections, they can't stand someone fanning the flames. "
"That's what I mean. Another thing is that now every household basically has one child, especially the working-class people. Whether it's a boy or a girl, they only have one child.
In fact, sometimes it is not suitable to train a big family. Putting them together like this can actually educate them better.
Whether the next generation of children can be independent is not something we can just talk about, but needs to be taught by words and deeds. "
"That's right, that's right, I want to tell you that I plan to apply for retirement in advance regarding Jing's family coming to Beijing to serve."
"Retire early? Why would you think so?"
"Don't be anxious first. Listen to me carefully."
"Okay, you say."
“I mean, don’t the Jing family want power and benefits?
Then if I take the initiative to leave, a position will be vacant in the Beijing Military Region. I still don't believe it.
He will not take this opportunity to choose to stay in the capital city. You must know that being able to stay in the capital city does not mean that anyone can stay if they want to.
As long as he stayed, the Jing family would have nothing to worry about the fourth child.
At least they don't have a suitable candidate to replace the fourth child.
Unless there are other people eyeing my position, or someone is also eyeing the fourth position.
But no matter who it is, their flaws will be revealed during this change of position.
We can take this opportunity to find out who is behind this.
Even if you can't break in, you can still lock them firmly.
In this way, we can also follow the clues and see what the people behind them want to do?
If not, we can exclude each other. "
"Yes, since you have decided, I won't stop you.
Anyway, retiring early is no different from retiring on the day, and the difference is only one year.
If I can retire early, I can at least spend more time with my parents at home. "
"Okay, as long as you have no objections, I will submit the application later."
"Okay, how can I have myself? I just want to know, what do they want to do?
If they want power, I'm afraid you won't be able to satisfy them just by withdrawing early.
Power is important. Without power, power will come from nowhere.
If I want money, it's up to them to take the assets in my hand. They can just take it if they want, but they don't have to live to take it.
This has no power, no money, where does the power come from? After such a drama, we and the others were idle and the Jing family died too slowly. "
"That's true, but we should still be careful. After all, it's not clear how many people will dislike us this time."
"I know."
"That's good. It's getting late. Are you hungry? Do you want to go out to eat something? Even if you feel unhappy, don't feel bad about your body..."
"Okay, let's go eat first. I won't do anything that will injure the enemy a thousand times and cause eight hundred losses to myself."
"That's good."
How can I not eat? I didn’t eat much at noon, but I can still do without eating at night.
Even if you want to stay in shape, it’s not like this.
Also, the confrontation between them cannot be resolved in a short while. Before the problem is resolved, although they cannot relax, they cannot stop eating.
What's more, they also need to let them know that Li Mianmian is not someone they can mess up with just a few words.
Even they have to have real abilities.
"Brothers and sisters, you must be hungry! Sister Wu made your favorite dish. Let's eat first and do other things after eating."
"I know sister-in-law, I'm worrying you."
"It's okay. Since I retired, apart from taking care of my children, my only hobby is cooking.
Besides, since I moved here, I can’t even get involved in cooking, so why do I need to do it? "
"That's too troublesome for you."
"Okay, let's stop saying these polite words as a family."
"Okay, by the way, where are my parents?"
"Your eldest brother took several children to the front yard to invite their parents. The two elder brothers have been playing there with the children today, and they don't feel tired.
If it were me, I wouldn't have such good physical strength. "
"Isn't that right? When I do other things, no matter how tired I am at work, I never feel that I am old. But when I play with the children, I really have to admit that I am old."
"Yes, they say that children are full of energy, and I understand it now.
When their father was still young, I didn't feel tired even though I had him with him for several years.
Why, when it comes time to raise my grandson, if I am asked to raise two children by myself, I am really afraid that I will not be able to raise them. "
"I am the same. I am raising two children by myself. When I can't see them in the blink of an eye, I don't know where to go."
"Grandma, are you and grandma talking bad about me?"
"You heard with that ear that your grandma was talking bad about you."
"Grandpa, I heard it with both ears!"
"Then what are you asking?"
"Grandpa, don't I just want to confirm?"
"Then have you confirmed it?"
"I want to confirm, but grandma didn't answer my question. Grandma, why don't you answer my question? Or do you think grandma has a guilty conscience."
"Grandma won't feel guilty, and grandma didn't say anything bad about you. What she said to your eldest grandma is true and happened, so it's not a bad word."
"But you and grandma are talking about me. Isn't it bad words?"
"Who told you that when you talk about someone, you always say bad things?"
"It is clearly stated that as long as someone goes behind his back and speaks about himself, he is speaking ill of himself."
