Chapter 471
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Lu Feng Shi De Bai Gong Zhu
"Okay, now that you've figured it out, that's good."
After listening to what the old man said, I felt it made sense.
But no matter how reasonable it is, the good thing is that the old man said it. If other people in the Shen family said it, it would be completely offending Sister Nan.
In other words, if you offend the Zhao family, even though the Zhao family is inconspicuous, it is not unreasonable to say that they would rather offend a gentleman than a villain.
But it's not that the second brother-in-law is a villain, but now that Jing Qianqian is in the Zhao family, what does that have to do with offending a villain.
well!Once a person gets married and has a family of his own, he will think about his own children.
The priority is always your own children, and everything else has to take a backseat. Even between brothers and sisters, things are not as good as they were before they started a family.
Fortunately, the old man at home is still there and he is not confused. Otherwise, today's matter will cause a big fuss sooner or later.
From now on, if the old man and the old lady are no longer here, it seems that we should invite fewer people to the reunion dinner in the future!
Don't worry about making things like this and not having enough fun.
As for the two people who left before the meal was finished, the big guys didn't pay much attention. They just wanted to eat and play, and were not affected by their departure at all.
Not only was there no impact, but everyone had more fun.
After all, no one will always talk to you, how happy that is.
Even though everyone was having a good time, I, as a person who had just come back from outside, really couldn't help but stay up all night.
After the old man and the old lady couldn't hold on any longer and went back to the house to rest, they also went to rest. They were really too tired.
Fortunately, during this Chinese New Year, there aren’t many things to do, that’s what I say.
However, on New Year's Day next year, there will be many people visiting our home, especially those who come to visit the old man and his wife.
You'd better get some rest quickly, otherwise you won't be able to get up tomorrow. You're welcome.
Regardless of the fact that only the fourth eldest son of the Shen family, Shen Bei, has not retired, it stands to reason that both the eldest brother and the rest of the family should live in a rest home.
But the old man didn't live there from the beginning, and since he had so many family members, he didn't live there either.
This is not only about getting up early tomorrow morning to receive guests who come to the house, but who knows where the identity of the people at home is?
Not that I really hope they will come. After all, there is no shortage of things at home, but there is absolutely no way around this?
Who knows where the identity of the old man and the old lady is? It is like this every year. Someone comes to visit the old man at home.
Not only that, since the child's father came back from retirement, the people above also arranged for people to visit him.
To be honest, he was a little uncomfortable at first, just like he said.
"It's really boring. I'm not the same age as my parents. I've just retired and I'm in my early [-]s, and there are people coming to visit me with big and small bags of stuff.
As for that?Who are you looking down on?Those who don’t know still think that I can’t walk even if I am seventy or eighty years old?
Besides, our family doesn’t lack these things, so why bring anything here? "
This happened to be heard by the daughter who came back, and Ruohua said it directly to her father.
"Dad, don't be ignorant. Do you know how many people outside envy you?
You know, what an honor it is to have government officials come to visit your home during the holidays.
Most people don't get this kind of treatment, that is, because you have worn these clothes before, otherwise how could you get this kind of treatment? "
The child's father said angrily after hearing this.
“It’s not that I don’t allow you to visit your home, it’s just that you don’t bring so many things.
It would be great to give these things to those who have a more difficult life, and our family has no shortage of them.
Besides, how old am I?He just came to see me with his things. He didn’t know and thought he was seriously ill? "
"Okay, dad, don't complain here. If you really don't want it, isn't it easy?
You give all the gifts to my mother and ask her to take them to the foundation.
Anyway, her foundation visits the extremely poor people who have retired from the army several times a year. Isn't this a solution?
If you feel really unhappy, then use your own funds to purchase more supplies and see who needs them. Wouldn’t it be enough to send more supplies to others?
It's nothing more than turning left hand to right hand. Even if someone knows about it, they won't say anything?
Who knows that we have this foundation and have been working on it for so many years? No one knows about it. "
I was sitting aside, and when I heard her say this, the more I thought about it, the more something was wrong, so I said it quickly.
"You kid, it's quite simple to say, how do you give the things sent here to others.
Aren't you slapping the person above you in the face?If you really don't want it, then convert it into money and then do things. You can't follow your child's method.
Otherwise, something might be wrong and things could easily go wrong. "
"Yes, my mother is thoughtful."
"Okay, stop flattering."
Although the daughter gave the child's father some advice, he didn't act on it.
On the contrary, since it was sent, it is not a big deal to keep it.
Besides, I brought these things here just to see him, and I wasn’t the kind of person who came to ask for help, so I stayed here.
If you are the kind of person who asks for help and gives gifts, let alone gifts, even people will turn you away.
At this point, the Shen family is all the same.
I would never open that back door for anyone.
Even if the other party has real talent and knowledge, it will have to go through layers of selection, otherwise it will not work at all.
To be honest, it's not humane at all, and it's not realistic.
It's nothing more than the kind of people who have special family situations and really need help.
At this point, it depends on the other party's needs and your own capabilities.
If the demand is not great but the ability is pretty good, basically just arrange a job for him or provide him with some other help.
If the other person wants to protect his family and country like his fathers, you can ask for help, but whether he can pass the selection depends on his own ability.
If that kind of child is still young and going to school, then make sure they can complete their studies, and we will talk about the rest later.
Over the years, whether it is my own foundation or my child's father, I have always helped others in this regard.
Even though I have saved many people, I never need anything in return from them. I just need them to become useful people in society.
But it is because of this, no, I should say this, because of my foundation.
In the eyes of others, I would rather help others than help my own family. Words like this started to spread. I don’t know when.
I didn't care at first, but later on, many familiar people would mention this in a vague way when they saw me.
After listening to what the old man said, I felt it made sense.
But no matter how reasonable it is, the good thing is that the old man said it. If other people in the Shen family said it, it would be completely offending Sister Nan.
In other words, if you offend the Zhao family, even though the Zhao family is inconspicuous, it is not unreasonable to say that they would rather offend a gentleman than a villain.
But it's not that the second brother-in-law is a villain, but now that Jing Qianqian is in the Zhao family, what does that have to do with offending a villain.
well!Once a person gets married and has a family of his own, he will think about his own children.
The priority is always your own children, and everything else has to take a backseat. Even between brothers and sisters, things are not as good as they were before they started a family.
Fortunately, the old man at home is still there and he is not confused. Otherwise, today's matter will cause a big fuss sooner or later.
From now on, if the old man and the old lady are no longer here, it seems that we should invite fewer people to the reunion dinner in the future!
Don't worry about making things like this and not having enough fun.
As for the two people who left before the meal was finished, the big guys didn't pay much attention. They just wanted to eat and play, and were not affected by their departure at all.
Not only was there no impact, but everyone had more fun.
After all, no one will always talk to you, how happy that is.
Even though everyone was having a good time, I, as a person who had just come back from outside, really couldn't help but stay up all night.
After the old man and the old lady couldn't hold on any longer and went back to the house to rest, they also went to rest. They were really too tired.
Fortunately, during this Chinese New Year, there aren’t many things to do, that’s what I say.
However, on New Year's Day next year, there will be many people visiting our home, especially those who come to visit the old man and his wife.
You'd better get some rest quickly, otherwise you won't be able to get up tomorrow. You're welcome.
Regardless of the fact that only the fourth eldest son of the Shen family, Shen Bei, has not retired, it stands to reason that both the eldest brother and the rest of the family should live in a rest home.
But the old man didn't live there from the beginning, and since he had so many family members, he didn't live there either.
This is not only about getting up early tomorrow morning to receive guests who come to the house, but who knows where the identity of the people at home is?
Not that I really hope they will come. After all, there is no shortage of things at home, but there is absolutely no way around this?
Who knows where the identity of the old man and the old lady is? It is like this every year. Someone comes to visit the old man at home.
Not only that, since the child's father came back from retirement, the people above also arranged for people to visit him.
To be honest, he was a little uncomfortable at first, just like he said.
"It's really boring. I'm not the same age as my parents. I've just retired and I'm in my early [-]s, and there are people coming to visit me with big and small bags of stuff.
As for that?Who are you looking down on?Those who don’t know still think that I can’t walk even if I am seventy or eighty years old?
Besides, our family doesn’t lack these things, so why bring anything here? "
This happened to be heard by the daughter who came back, and Ruohua said it directly to her father.
"Dad, don't be ignorant. Do you know how many people outside envy you?
You know, what an honor it is to have government officials come to visit your home during the holidays.
Most people don't get this kind of treatment, that is, because you have worn these clothes before, otherwise how could you get this kind of treatment? "
The child's father said angrily after hearing this.
“It’s not that I don’t allow you to visit your home, it’s just that you don’t bring so many things.
It would be great to give these things to those who have a more difficult life, and our family has no shortage of them.
Besides, how old am I?He just came to see me with his things. He didn’t know and thought he was seriously ill? "
"Okay, dad, don't complain here. If you really don't want it, isn't it easy?
You give all the gifts to my mother and ask her to take them to the foundation.
Anyway, her foundation visits the extremely poor people who have retired from the army several times a year. Isn't this a solution?
If you feel really unhappy, then use your own funds to purchase more supplies and see who needs them. Wouldn’t it be enough to send more supplies to others?
It's nothing more than turning left hand to right hand. Even if someone knows about it, they won't say anything?
Who knows that we have this foundation and have been working on it for so many years? No one knows about it. "
I was sitting aside, and when I heard her say this, the more I thought about it, the more something was wrong, so I said it quickly.
"You kid, it's quite simple to say, how do you give the things sent here to others.
Aren't you slapping the person above you in the face?If you really don't want it, then convert it into money and then do things. You can't follow your child's method.
Otherwise, something might be wrong and things could easily go wrong. "
"Yes, my mother is thoughtful."
"Okay, stop flattering."
Although the daughter gave the child's father some advice, he didn't act on it.
On the contrary, since it was sent, it is not a big deal to keep it.
Besides, I brought these things here just to see him, and I wasn’t the kind of person who came to ask for help, so I stayed here.
If you are the kind of person who asks for help and gives gifts, let alone gifts, even people will turn you away.
At this point, the Shen family is all the same.
I would never open that back door for anyone.
Even if the other party has real talent and knowledge, it will have to go through layers of selection, otherwise it will not work at all.
To be honest, it's not humane at all, and it's not realistic.
It's nothing more than the kind of people who have special family situations and really need help.
At this point, it depends on the other party's needs and your own capabilities.
If the demand is not great but the ability is pretty good, basically just arrange a job for him or provide him with some other help.
If the other person wants to protect his family and country like his fathers, you can ask for help, but whether he can pass the selection depends on his own ability.
If that kind of child is still young and going to school, then make sure they can complete their studies, and we will talk about the rest later.
Over the years, whether it is my own foundation or my child's father, I have always helped others in this regard.
Even though I have saved many people, I never need anything in return from them. I just need them to become useful people in society.
But it is because of this, no, I should say this, because of my foundation.
In the eyes of others, I would rather help others than help my own family. Words like this started to spread. I don’t know when.
I didn't care at first, but later on, many familiar people would mention this in a vague way when they saw me.
