Chapter 482 Extra Shen Xi (5)
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Lu Feng Shi De Bai Gong Zhu
Even so, even if there was any leftover, very little was given to them, and most of the things were given to their elder brothers or younger brothers.
Dad, is their family short of money? "
"There is no shortage. People who can live in family homes have high positions. Relatively speaking, there is no shortage of money or tickets."
"Then why do we do this? Our family has never done it."
"Why? It can only be said that the education, ideology and culture they received are different from ours."
Then he told his daughter one by one about his understanding.
In his opinion, his daughter cannot be allowed to feel that men and women are not equal, and the elders in the family have the mentality of favoring sons over daughters.
Even if the Shen family doesn't have it, in this big environment, they still have to let their daughter know more.
Even though she is still young, she should know everything she should know.
As for other people's families, that is other people's affairs, and he and others have no right to interfere.
I just didn't expect that after listening to what I said, my daughter would ask herself this.
"Then Dad, they are so pitiful! Should I give my things to them?"
"Why should we give it to them?"
"Isn't it pitiful that they don't get the love of their elders?
Can you let others eat the good things? If others play with them, won’t they lose it?
I was thinking whether I should give them my things to play with or give them to eat? "
"Why do you think they must be pitiful and have nothing to eat or play with?"
"What do you mean?"
"What do you mean? Although you are still young, do you still remember where our family lived before coming here?"
"It's so far, so far. You have to take a car first, then a train, and..."
"Yes, then do you still remember what food our family often ate when we lived there?"
"I eat eggs, steamed eggs, and egg pancakes. My brother and the others eat eggs, yellow pancakes, yellow steamed buns, wowo shit, sweet potatoes, and porridge."
"Then what kind of food does our family eat now?"
"Yeah! Everyone eats rice, white flour steamed buns, and big meat buns."
"Then do you think white-flour steamed buns are more delicious, or yellow steamed buns?"
"I don't know, I've never eaten smooth steamed buns."
"Yes, then go back and ask your children, what do they eat at home?"
"No need to ask, I know it? They drink porridge and steamed buns in the morning, either rice or steamed buns at noon, and they also seem to have rice and steamed buns in the evening."
"If that's the case, then they usually eat the same food as us, why do we need to give them that thing?
Didn't they have enough to eat?
Are you thinking about the snacks you can eat now, are they only available here? "
"There are a lot of them that I have never eaten before. What I ate most in the past were biscuits, but here I eat a lot of pastries."
"Then they are more here than you. Some of them have been born and raised here since childhood. Do you think it is you who have eaten more pastries or they have eaten more pastries?"
"Of course they are."
"Then do you think they are still pitiful?"
"But their family?"
"No matter what their family does, they just give most of the good things to boys, but that doesn't mean they don't give any to girls.
But to say that the truly pitiful people were before we came back here and lived in the countryside.
The people there, whether they are boys or girls, may not have eaten even the cookies you usually eat the most.
And where, it is difficult to eat meat several times throughout the year, but here, you eat meat once every few days. "
"Meat, eat once a day, hehe!"
"You little greedy cat, then tell dad whether you are pitiful for the friend you just met here or for the children living in the country."
"Of course the children in the countryside are pitiful. So, dad, how can I help them?"
"Don't worry about it now. When you grow up and have the ability, you can help them.
But can you tell Dad why you think they are pitiful? "
"Isn't it what I think? Is it what they told me?
They said that my grandfather was a high-ranking official and the superiors gave my grandparents a lot of money. The money would go to my brothers and brothers, not me.
He also said that everything in the house belonged to my brothers and younger brothers and would not be given to me.
But I obviously eat the same food and wear the same clothes as my brother and the others.
Why do they do this again?He also said that at that time, my grandfather had a high official position and was not short of money. He could eat whatever he wanted.
Unlike them, no matter what they eat, the elders in the family dislike them for eating too much.
Even if you just eat some meat, you should stay close to your elder brother or younger brother first.
But dad, is our family like this?
Whenever there is something delicious, it is given to my brother and I first. Why did we commit sexual misconduct at their house? "
"You don't have to worry about this. Just remember that every family's situation is different. Don't worry about it. Our family won't do things according to their family's style."
"Oh!"
"But looking back, if they talk about this in front of you, try not to listen to their nonsense.
Although Dad has never seen them, no matter how they dress or dress up, there should be no patches on their clothes, right? "
"Not really, except that it's a little dirty, a little old, and has no patches."
"In this case, don't believe the widow they are talking to. They are trying to trap your widow. If you tell them, what do you eat at home every day?
Maybe you can go back home and have a good time at that time. By that time, no matter how many good things you have waiting for, it won't be enough. "
"Oh no?"
"Why not? Didn't they all say that your grandfather has a lot of money and if you don't give it to them then, how can that be done?"
"This?"
"The third child is old enough. You have been telling your child for so many years, but how can she remember coming here?
When she came back, her brothers stayed with her and told her bit by bit whether what someone said was true or false. "
"But?"
"It's nothing, although your dad did come back to take charge of the work, but some people are unhappy when they see your dad taking over someone else's position?
Don't think that the old lady doesn't know who she is and wants to have a few children, so she just brings up our children. What do you think it's okay?
Our children don’t need to be involved in their education. "
Hearing what the old lady said, he didn't know what to say. After all, he had just returned from the front line and the situation in Beijing was not clear at all.
It's better to be careful, no matter who it is, you have to wait until he has established a foothold in Beijing.
But before that, you can give your son a few words in private. After all, he is a little older and should be able to deal with some problems.
Dad, is their family short of money? "
"There is no shortage. People who can live in family homes have high positions. Relatively speaking, there is no shortage of money or tickets."
"Then why do we do this? Our family has never done it."
"Why? It can only be said that the education, ideology and culture they received are different from ours."
Then he told his daughter one by one about his understanding.
In his opinion, his daughter cannot be allowed to feel that men and women are not equal, and the elders in the family have the mentality of favoring sons over daughters.
Even if the Shen family doesn't have it, in this big environment, they still have to let their daughter know more.
Even though she is still young, she should know everything she should know.
As for other people's families, that is other people's affairs, and he and others have no right to interfere.
I just didn't expect that after listening to what I said, my daughter would ask herself this.
"Then Dad, they are so pitiful! Should I give my things to them?"
"Why should we give it to them?"
"Isn't it pitiful that they don't get the love of their elders?
Can you let others eat the good things? If others play with them, won’t they lose it?
I was thinking whether I should give them my things to play with or give them to eat? "
"Why do you think they must be pitiful and have nothing to eat or play with?"
"What do you mean?"
"What do you mean? Although you are still young, do you still remember where our family lived before coming here?"
"It's so far, so far. You have to take a car first, then a train, and..."
"Yes, then do you still remember what food our family often ate when we lived there?"
"I eat eggs, steamed eggs, and egg pancakes. My brother and the others eat eggs, yellow pancakes, yellow steamed buns, wowo shit, sweet potatoes, and porridge."
"Then what kind of food does our family eat now?"
"Yeah! Everyone eats rice, white flour steamed buns, and big meat buns."
"Then do you think white-flour steamed buns are more delicious, or yellow steamed buns?"
"I don't know, I've never eaten smooth steamed buns."
"Yes, then go back and ask your children, what do they eat at home?"
"No need to ask, I know it? They drink porridge and steamed buns in the morning, either rice or steamed buns at noon, and they also seem to have rice and steamed buns in the evening."
"If that's the case, then they usually eat the same food as us, why do we need to give them that thing?
Didn't they have enough to eat?
Are you thinking about the snacks you can eat now, are they only available here? "
"There are a lot of them that I have never eaten before. What I ate most in the past were biscuits, but here I eat a lot of pastries."
"Then they are more here than you. Some of them have been born and raised here since childhood. Do you think it is you who have eaten more pastries or they have eaten more pastries?"
"Of course they are."
"Then do you think they are still pitiful?"
"But their family?"
"No matter what their family does, they just give most of the good things to boys, but that doesn't mean they don't give any to girls.
But to say that the truly pitiful people were before we came back here and lived in the countryside.
The people there, whether they are boys or girls, may not have eaten even the cookies you usually eat the most.
And where, it is difficult to eat meat several times throughout the year, but here, you eat meat once every few days. "
"Meat, eat once a day, hehe!"
"You little greedy cat, then tell dad whether you are pitiful for the friend you just met here or for the children living in the country."
"Of course the children in the countryside are pitiful. So, dad, how can I help them?"
"Don't worry about it now. When you grow up and have the ability, you can help them.
But can you tell Dad why you think they are pitiful? "
"Isn't it what I think? Is it what they told me?
They said that my grandfather was a high-ranking official and the superiors gave my grandparents a lot of money. The money would go to my brothers and brothers, not me.
He also said that everything in the house belonged to my brothers and younger brothers and would not be given to me.
But I obviously eat the same food and wear the same clothes as my brother and the others.
Why do they do this again?He also said that at that time, my grandfather had a high official position and was not short of money. He could eat whatever he wanted.
Unlike them, no matter what they eat, the elders in the family dislike them for eating too much.
Even if you just eat some meat, you should stay close to your elder brother or younger brother first.
But dad, is our family like this?
Whenever there is something delicious, it is given to my brother and I first. Why did we commit sexual misconduct at their house? "
"You don't have to worry about this. Just remember that every family's situation is different. Don't worry about it. Our family won't do things according to their family's style."
"Oh!"
"But looking back, if they talk about this in front of you, try not to listen to their nonsense.
Although Dad has never seen them, no matter how they dress or dress up, there should be no patches on their clothes, right? "
"Not really, except that it's a little dirty, a little old, and has no patches."
"In this case, don't believe the widow they are talking to. They are trying to trap your widow. If you tell them, what do you eat at home every day?
Maybe you can go back home and have a good time at that time. By that time, no matter how many good things you have waiting for, it won't be enough. "
"Oh no?"
"Why not? Didn't they all say that your grandfather has a lot of money and if you don't give it to them then, how can that be done?"
"This?"
"The third child is old enough. You have been telling your child for so many years, but how can she remember coming here?
When she came back, her brothers stayed with her and told her bit by bit whether what someone said was true or false. "
"But?"
"It's nothing, although your dad did come back to take charge of the work, but some people are unhappy when they see your dad taking over someone else's position?
Don't think that the old lady doesn't know who she is and wants to have a few children, so she just brings up our children. What do you think it's okay?
Our children don’t need to be involved in their education. "
Hearing what the old lady said, he didn't know what to say. After all, he had just returned from the front line and the situation in Beijing was not clear at all.
It's better to be careful, no matter who it is, you have to wait until he has established a foothold in Beijing.
But before that, you can give your son a few words in private. After all, he is a little older and should be able to deal with some problems.
