Chapter 3143: High spirit

Hearing these words of Lin Daiyu, Sun Yingying smiled and replied softly: "Daiyu, Xue Baochai is four years older than you. The problems she thinks about, and the environment in which she lives compel her to do it. There are so many things, far more than you!

Now that the Xue family is between the Lin family and the Xian De concubine, the Xue family must make a choice! Should I accept the advice from the Lin family, or accept the pie drawn by Concubine Xian De? This choice is related to the future life and death of the Xue family.

Xue Baochai will naturally use all available resources and contacts around him to search for more information to make a judgment. If she came to visit me directly, she would definitely pierce the eyes of the virtuous concubine, but if she visited you, there would be another way of saying it. There is a difference between the two! You know you feel awkward, but if you think about it, there is nothing wrong with Xue Baochai's doing this. "

After Lin Daiyu heard it, she understood instantly. From her own point of view, she really felt that Sister Baochai was too embarrassed. "Although I understand Sister Baochai's difficulties, is there only a relationship between being used and being used?"

When Sun Yingying heard Lin Daiyu's words, she knew that Lin Daiyu and the high spirits had come out again.

Sun Yingying explained, "Actually, from another point of view, although Xue Baochai is here to inquire about the news, he did tell you something, and after playing for a while, it is considered to be a visit to you. Think about it the other way around, if You are Xue Baochai, would you do this like her?"

Lin Daiyu thought for a while and nodded, "I will also inquire everywhere, no matter what price I pay, I will try my best to let the family get through this difficult time!"

Hearing Lin Daiyu’s answer, Sun Yingying smiled, “If that’s the case, then don’t criticize Xue Baochai! Gentlemen’s friendships are like water, but at the same time it’s not that there is no interest at all! True friendship is not asking for nothing. It's about reaching out to help each other when they are in trouble, not falling into trouble!

Since you like Sister Xue, I have a good impression of Xue Baochai, so if she came to ask about the things she came to ask today, I would not say at all if it was an ordinary person. When you get along with others in the future, no matter who you are, you should put yourself in the right position first, not to delight in things, and not to sorrow yourself. "

After Sun Yingying said this, she felt a little funny in her heart. Now she seemed to be pulling Lin Daiyu, who was an immortal, into the mortal world and becoming an ordinary person.

But she didn't think it was such a mistake. She didn't want Lin Daiyu to live in her own mind, with no knowledge of firewood and fireworks.

After all, they are living in the world, so they need to be familiar with the world so that they can live calmly and well.

Lin Daiyu thought for a while and nodded, "Thank you mother! I seem to understand a little bit!"

Bai Yixiu walked in from the outside in the leisurely courtyard and asked with a smile, "What do you understand?"

Lin Daiyu smiled and replied: "Understand, you must put yourself in an empathic position when you do things, and at the same time you must keep your heart and not be affected by the outside."

Bai Yixiu was quite surprised, "Oh, my good girl actually has such a sentiment, it's really good!"

Hearing her father’s compliment, Lin Daiyu’s face turned red, "It’s because my mother and father are well educated, so I can understand a lot of things! Now thinking about the things I did and the things I said, it’s quite funny. Back then, my mind was so narrow."