Chapter 3573: persuade

"Wenli, I know you are for my good, but I have liked him for five years. From the freshman year, I have always liked it until now." Qu Jiajia's eyes were reddish, and she also persuaded herself to give up, but she couldn't let it go.

Bai Wenli knows that some things must be understood by herself and let them go, otherwise it will be useless no matter how much others say.

Her eldest sister Bai Wenjia is a living example, so she is not in a hurry.

"I know you like Li Ningde. I didn't stop you. I just want you to calm down and understand why you broke up when you were about to get married in a six-year relationship.

This is definitely not a trivial matter. You have also met Li Ningde's girlfriend, she looks good, and she has a good personality. You have a crush on someone, and when you look at that person, you always wear a filter, and you only see the good, but not the bad.

Let's find out all the bad situations clearly and list them all. If you think you can accept the worst plan, then I won't stop you. But if you are confused, then I will talk about you more. "

When Qu Jiajia heard what a good friend said, she was very moved, "Wenli, thank you. In fact, sometimes I really envy you and can treat love so calmly."

Bai Wenli smiled, "I used to have a crush on Shang Wenjun, and thought he was very talented, but for him, I went to work with him. I wanted to bring him a copy if I had something delicious.

After that Shang Wenjun ate something, he should have felt my admiration for him, but he never expressed it, but accepted it with peace of mind. At that time, I felt that if you like someone, just like it silently, without asking for anything in return.

But then my mother twisted my ears and gave me life. A normal man can feel the love of a girl. If he clearly felt it, he didn't express it, there were only two possibilities.

First, he doesn't like it enough, so he doesn't want to confess, but he also enjoys the love and compliments of the opposite sex, which makes him very good and charming. Secondly, he treated the opponent as a spare tire, hanging. Valley

Either way, it is not the responsibility and performance that an upright man should have. I still didn't understand at the time, but I listened to my mother and tried to think more, only to find that I was stupid. It was indeed the two situations my mother said.

In addition, you know a lot about my eldest sister's situation, blindly falling in love, not listening to the advice of her parents, and it was terrible later. From then on, I feel that parents tend to look at problems more calmly than women who are immersed in love.

They are not optimistic about people, and they always have very good reasons. Even if you can't accept it all, but at least take your parents' suggestions seriously. "

Of course, Qu Jiajia understood what Bai Wenli said, and she knew that Bai Wenli had a secret crush on Shang Wenjun.

Shang Wenjun talked and laughed with Bai Wenli during his summer job. After school started, Shang Wenjun confirmed the relationship with another woman, and Bai Wenli stopped chasing Shang Wenjun.

At that time, Bai Wenli was asked about the reason. Bai Wenli said that she was busy writing novels and had no time to secretly fall in love.

It turned out that the real reason came from Bai Wenli's parents.

Qu Jiajia nodded, "Wenli, thank you, I think you make sense."

Bai Wenli smiled, "No thanks, we are good sisters. I will tell you what you can think of. You must calm down yourself. Okay, hurry up and eat, and after dinner, let's go shopping together. Buy some good-looking ones. Clothes."

"Well, even if we don't become a female star, we have to dress up carefully." Qu Jiajia laughed, speeding up the meal and striving for more shopping time.