Chapter 3437: Adopt a child

"Qingqing, do you think I can adopt a child?" Yu Anning asked suddenly.

Ye Qingqing frowned, she felt that Yu Anning's obsession with the child was too deep, perhaps her daughter Li Qiqi had hit her too deeply.

Coupled with this child's miscarriage, Yu Anning was a little stunned, thinking about the child.

"You should discuss this with Qi Wenyuan."

"I will definitely discuss it with him, I just want to listen to your opinion."

Yu Anning is very entangled. She has never had such a strong desire to raise a child as she is now. She is very urgent. She can't wait to go to the orphanage to see the child. She doesn't know what happened to her, but she just wants a child, even if it's not herself. Anything can be born.

"Since you've asked me, I'll say it bluntly. I personally don't recommend you adopt it. First of all, your physical condition does not allow it. You have to work hard to raise a child. In the past ten years from baby to adult, you have always Are you worried and tired all the time, are you sure you can handle it?" Ye Qingqing asked back.

Yu Anning was stunned, thought about it, and hesitated, "I can ask for a babysitter."

"Children need company. Even if you hire ten babysitters, they can't replace the role of mother. Why doesn't Li Qiqi kiss you? It's not because you didn't accompany her, do you want to raise another Li Qiqi?"

Yu Anning's expression changed slightly, and he was a little shaken.

One Li Qiqi has made her not recover until now, and if she raises another one, she may even lose her life.

Ye Qingqing added: "And even if you have a cat or a dog, you have to be responsible for them, you can't abandon them at will, let alone a child, you can bear no matter how angry you are with your own child, because it is born by yourself, but if it is adopted Children, you have no blood relationship with them, and your tolerance is limited, are you sure you can tolerate a child who is not related by blood infinitely?"

Yu Anning was thoughtful, and she wasn't sure whether she had such a strong tolerance. If she adopted a child, but couldn't love him wholeheartedly, would it be a great harm to the child?

"I can't be infinitely tolerant to children I didn't give birth to. I admit that my love is narrow, so I can donate money to children in poverty-stricken mountainous areas, but I can't bring them back to raise them. If I can't love them wholeheartedly , it's better not to get them back and hurt them."

Ye Qingqing is very calm, she doesn't feel that she is selfish, love is inherently narrow, she can only love a limited number of people, others forgive her for not having so much love.

Yu Anning smiled bitterly, "I don't know if I can do it."

"This kind of thing can't be tried. Since you have adopted it, you have to be responsible to the end. After a few years of adoption, you find that it is not suitable, and you return the child. You can't do such a thing, it's too immoral." Ye Qingqing joked.

There are still many people who do this kind of thing. After adopting a child, suddenly pregnant, or for various other reasons, they don’t want to raise the child anymore. Same as return.

But commodities have no feelings, and it is no problem to return them a hundred times, but children are different. The young mind cannot bear such damage, which may affect the child's growth.

After being persuaded by Ye Qingqing, Yu Anning gave up the idea of ​​adopting. She was not afraid of trouble, but worried that she would not be able to raise her well, and that her own daughters had become defective, but she could no longer harm other people's children.