Chapter 1568 Three Stories
"The first story is about love and loss."
"I'm actually not very lucky. I come from a rural area and my family has been poor since I was a child.
In my childhood, there were no toys, no playgrounds, and no summer camps.
When I was in college, I earned some pocket money by cleaning my roommates' shoes and doing laundry. Sometimes I even made some money by picking up bottles. Every Sunday night, I have to walk seven or eight miles to buy some cheap daily necessities, and then walk back, just to save the two yuan in bus fare. "
"I don't want to praise suffering and poverty. It's precisely because I have been poor and suffered, and I know how uncomfortable it feels. I don't even dare to stop when I pass by a slightly higher-end barber shop. I have to run quickly, for fear of stopping for a moment. , someone invited me in for a haircut, but I couldn’t afford it.”
"So, I hate poverty and suffering. They make me full of inferiority and no self-esteem. Especially when it comes to money, I become extremely sensitive. I have many bad habits that I haven't changed even when I became the richest man."
"Nietzsche, the master of philosophy, once said: "Whatever doesn't kill me makes me stronger. "However, according to rumors, Nietzsche became insane due to unbearable loneliness. Excessive praise of the positive effects of suffering on people may ignore the learned helplessness of some people due to suffering."
“Glorifying suffering is evil!
The most shameless, insidious and vicious form of praise in the world is to use the hardships and sufferings of the poor as an inspirational story to fool the people at the bottom.
Don't beautify suffering. Suffering itself has no value and no gain. It is not necessary to make suffering a compulsory practice.
Suffering is not a touchstone of willpower, nor is it an endorsement of struggle after success. Suffering is suffering because it cannot be avoided and avoided. Don't deify it, don't beautify it, and don't rationalize it out of avoidance and fear, or deceive yourself and others. "
“Singing the praises of suffering is more vicious than the suffering itself!”
“This is the first story I’ve ever shared.”
Everyone in the audience looked up at Chen Mo in astonishment.
Many of them have listened to the speeches of important figures.
Those big shots have always sung and praised suffering, but no one has ever shared their heart and soul with them like Chen Mo.
Many poor people always think that suffering is a blessing. Suffering can motivate people to make progress, and they even use this method to educate their children.
In fact, what they don’t know is that among the truly successful bosses from all walks of life today, almost none of them has a grassroots background, let alone starting from scratch.
Chen Mo was able to succeed because he was reborn. If he didn't have the memory of rebirth, even if he hadn't met Tang Mengmeng, he would never have become a rich man, let alone marry Gong Ziyuan!
From the moment he was born, his poor family had severely limited his ceiling. It was not something that could be determined by hard work or even talent!
Netizens who were watching the live broadcast were also shocked by Chen Mo's theory.
There are some netizens who are experiencing poverty and suffering, and it is only at this moment that they wake up.
It turns out that suffering is not a blessing!
While everyone was still trying to digest what Chen Mo had just said, Chen Mo said playfully: "I can summarize the point of this story in one sentence: As long as you can endure hardship, there will be endless hardship."
As soon as he said this, the audience burst into laughter!
And the barrage of the live broadcast also exploded!
"66666!!!"
"Your sister, you were so enlightened at first, but then you said this and almost made me burst out laughing!"
"No, my chest hurts from laughing!"
"My words are rough but my reasoning is rough. I came from a poor background. My parents taught me from an early age to be obedient and work hard, and that suffering a loss is a blessing. But after I got to work, my boss saw that I was capable and asked me to do the work of three people by myself. What the fuck? I’m almost exhausted!”
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Immediately afterwards, Chen Mo told the second story:
"The second story is about death."
"I once had a dream. I dreamed that I was married to a Fu Di Mo, and her whole family sucked my blood. I swallowed my anger for the sake of my son, but in the end I found out that the child was not mine either.
In the end, I died with hatred and woke up from the dream. "
"At that moment, I realized that if you don't bring life with you, you won't take death with you. There is no reason not to do what you want. I want to live for myself!
I want to do what I like, marry the person I really like, and fight for my dreams! "
“No one wants to die. Even those who want to go to heaven want to go to heaven alive. But death is our shared destination and no one can escape it. It’s meant to be, because death is simply life’s greatest invention. , is the medium of life change, sending away the old people and leaving space for the new generation. Now you are the new generation, but in the near future, you will gradually grow old and be sent off the stage of life. Sorry to speak so dramatically, But it's true."
"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living in other people's lives. Don't be fooled by creeds. Blindly following creeds means living in the results of other people's thinking. Don't let other people's opinions drown out your inner voice. The most important thing is to have The courage to follow your heart and intuition, which more or less already knows who you really want to be. Everything else is secondary.”
"My wife likes to read Zhuangzi. Zhuangzi believes that death is eternal, and compared with eternity, living time is just a drop in the ocean."
"So, nothing is important, and no one is good or bad, including me. In the end, we will all go to the same destination - the land of death."
"The second story, let me summarize it, is that when you are alive, do what you want and don't be afraid of anyone or anything, because they will eventually die just like you."
In fact, this topic is something Chen Mo has always thought about about death.
What Daxia lacks most is death education.
When it comes to death, everyone naturally thinks it is a bad thing and should be avoided.
But death is something that no one can avoid throughout the ages. The more afraid you are, the more afraid you will be when you are close to death.
It's better to open up and live a more open-minded life.
After all, all things decay and only Death lives forever.
At this time, the topic became a bit heavy.
The audience in the audience fell into thinking.
Chen Mo felt that he might have gone too far, so he hurriedly entered the last topic:
"Okay, the last story is probably the story you care about the most."
“How can I become rich suddenly?”
Chen Mo used a rather funny tone, and the audience who immediately fell into thinking were all brightened up!
