Chapter 4931
An Liang looked at the message Zhao Wanxi replied, and he praised Zhao Wanxi again in his heart.
Zhao Wanxi's reply seemed simple, but it actually contained a deep meaning.
For example, Zhao Wanxi explained Yun Xiyue's situation in the imperial capital circle and the Yun family, which was to remind An Liang that Yun Xiyue was at the center of the vortex, and once involved, he had to be extremely careful.
The second thing was to help with small things within his ability, which expressed Zhao Wanxi's attitude. Zhao Wanxi did not want Yun Xiyue to join the backyard alliance.
The Zhao family could tolerate An Liang finding a girlfriend outside the imperial capital circle, but it would be very difficult for the Zhao family to accept Yun Xiyue.
After all, Yun Xiyue's situation was too special, and she also had a daughter!
However, Zhao Wanxi's first message expressed another attitude. Zhao Wanxi's first message agreed to Yun Xiyue's request for An Liang's help, which represented another attitude of Zhao Wanxi: she could accept Yun Xiyue.
Such an analysis may seem contradictory at first glance?
However, there is no contradiction!
Why did An Liang say that Zhao Wanxi was a smart person? In fact, in this seemingly simple reply message, Zhao Wanxi's intelligence was fully reflected.
First, Zhao Wanxi first expressed her acceptance of Yun Xiyue, so she agreed to An Liang pretending to be Yun Xin's father to attend the parent-teacher meeting.
Second, Zhao Wanxi pointed out that Yun Xiyue was at the center of the vortex, so An Liang must be careful.
Third, Zhao Wanxi finally expressed her attitude of not accepting Yun Xiyue to join the backyard alliance.
Three messages, expressing three things, and the attitude is progressive, and even considering An Liang's acceptance.
After all, Zhao Wanxi expressed her agreement at the beginning, which means respecting An Liang and expressing her magnanimity.
Second, she cares about An Liang, indicating that she is considering An Liang.
Finally, he expressed his intention to refuse Yun Xiyue to join the Backyard Alliance. As for the reason for the refusal, the reason was already stated in the second message of concern for An Liang.
Combining the three messages, in short: Zhao Wanxi hopes that An Liang can contact Yun Xiyue under the premise of protecting himself, but this matter cannot be made public.
An Liang himself is also a smart person. Of course, he can analyze Zhao Wanxi's subtext, so An Liang always sighs that Zhao Wanxi is a smart person, and always can't help but feel that Zhao Wanxi is the queen of the Backyard Alliance.
An Liang: Okay, I understand.
An Liang: Don't worry, I know my limits.
Zhao Wanxi: Hum~!
An Liang: Thank you, Wanxi.
Zhao Wanxi: Just you know!
In the simple conversation between the two, they actually revealed a meaning.
That is: I understand what you mean.
It must be said that communicating with smart people is so easy and enjoyable.
Perhaps some people think that it is not tiring to communicate in this way?
Why can't some things be said directly?
I can only say that anyone who can ask such a question probably lacks emotional intelligence.
Using the three messages that Zhao Wanxi replied to An Liang as an example, if we take a direct approach, how should we say it? (To read the exciting novels, go to Faloo Novel Network!)
The first one: I think I can agree to Sister Xiyue
Direct translation: If you want to be with Yun Xiyue, then you can be together!
Or it can also be translated as: I agree that you and Yun Xiyue are together.
Look at the two translations. No matter which one is translated, is it full of stiffness, indifference, or even sarcasm?
Ask for flowers
Zhao Wanxi's meaning is obviously to indulge An Liang, but if she says it directly, it will completely change the meaning.
Second: Sister Xiyue is in a very difficult situation. I believe you understand her situation. Whether in the imperial capital circle or in the Yun family, her situation is relatively...
Straightforward translation: Yun Xiyue is a troublemaker who is unmarried and has a baby. Be careful!
Such a straightforward answer is obviously full of problems.
Originally, Zhao Wanxi wanted to express her concern for An Liang and remind him, and then use it as a reason for rejecting the third point.
However, if she said it directly, it would be full of threats, and there would be no concern at all.
Third: Brother Liang, we can help with this kind of small matter within our ability. What do you think?
Straightforward translation: I don’t agree with you and Yun Xiyue dating, and she cannot join the backyard alliance.
According to the message Zhao Wanxi originally replied, it was a gentle expression of a tough attitude, which not only eased the atmosphere between the two sides, but also drew her own bottom line.
But if we take the straightforward version, it is a strong refusal, how can An Liang save face?
So the communication between Zhao Wanxi and An Liang is not direct enough, but it is necessary, because sometimes not expressing the meaning directly can express the meaning better.
Some people call this kind of thing thick black theory, some people call it scheming, and some people call it emotional intelligence.
However, no matter what it is called, it is not important. What is important is the communication between people, and sometimes it is really necessary.
After all, sociology has been passed down for thousands of years, and it seems that there has been no change. .
