Chapter 632
"Auntie, Xiyan, I'm leaving first. My dad sent me a message that I need to attend our celebration banquet at Ansheng."An Liang sat on the sofa and checked the message sent by An Shengyu.
An Shengyu intended to cultivate An Liang's prestige in Ansheng Construction Company. The last time he paid a bonus was to introduce An Liang to the core competitiveness team of Ansheng Construction.
Now The purpose of letting Anliang attend the celebration banquet is to introduce Anliang to the management and logistics staff of AXA Construction, so that Anliang's symbol can be imprinted into AXA Construction, and to allow Anliang to experience the corporate culture of AXA Construction. Liu Ling responded ,"OK. I heard that Chengyuan and Mingde are also going to attend your Ansheng celebration banquet. Come over quickly, you are the protagonist today!"
Li Xiyan said,"By the way, Anliang, I'm going shopping with Sun Feifei and Song Xinxin tomorrow."
"Do you want me to accompany you?"An Liang asked back.
"What I mean is that I don’t want you to accompany me! Li Xiyan responded,"They are all single. They specifically told me not to take you there.""
"Too much!"An Liang pretended to be dissatisfied.
Just go to the little vixen tomorrow!
An Liang left Li Xiyan's house and went to Ansheng Construction Company.
At Li Xiyan's house, after An Liang left, Liu Ling tried on Louis Vuitton scarf, while asking,"How much did you spend on him?"
"ah?"Li Xiyan was stunned for a moment.
"What's going on with these things?"Liu Ling asked.
Li Xiyan responded,"We went to the International Financial Center today. An Liang bought a briefcase for his father and bought various things on the way."
Liu Ling looked at her daughter with a headache. Li Xiyan seemed a little confused about the amount of money?
"How much do these cost in total? Liu Ling asked
"Not paying attention, maybe more than 50,000, right? Li Xiyan responded.
Liu Ling had a headache even more, and she educated her,"Do you know what more than fifty thousand yuan is?""
"I know!"Li Xiyan responded
"you do not know! Liu Ling retorted
"My salary is 10,000 yuan before tax. After deducting personal income tax and related social security payments, I actually got only 7,500 yuan in the end." Liu Ling explained.
"Even if I didn’t eat or drink for half a year, I still couldn’t save 50,000 yuan. Liu Ling added.
Li Xiyan retorted,"Mom, I know what you are going to say, but your thinking is already outdated, okay?""
Liu Ling looked at Li Xiyan silently.
"We've discussed this before. Mom, times are changing, specific situations require specific analysis. An Liang spends money on me, which is a way of showing that he likes me."Li Xiyan explained.
"This form of expression is actually no different in essence from helping to make meals, fetching hot water, asking for help, giving brown sugar water, etc. They are all just expressions of kindness to me."Li Xiyan gave an example
"Why do many people feel disgusted with the form of spending money to show kindness, and even demonize this form, and smear it in various ways? In fact, the fundamental reason is that the rich are in the minority, and the majority of people have no money, so the majority of people occupy Without the right to speak, all kinds of demonic remarks will appear."Li Xiyan pointed directly to the essence.
Is there really a problem in gaining favor through money?
As Li Xiyan said, there is no difference in essence between the ways of showing favor through money.
It's just that it's been demonized!
"For Anliang, he wanted to be good to me, and he wanted to let me know, so he was willing to buy, buy, buy for me, and I didn't stop him."Li Xiyan explained
"If I block him, don't accept his good things, and make a very clear distinction with him regarding money, isn't that telling him that I am unwilling to accept his good things? Li Xiyan asked back
"Money is just a way to express goodwill!"Li Xiyan looked at Liu Ling,"Mom, look at it with a fair eye and treat it as an ordinary thing. For example, when I was sick, Anliang sent me cold medicine and took care of me. That's right. Isn’t it acceptable? Liu
Ling retorted,"But giving things is not about taking care of you when you are sick!""
"Let us first ignore the question of whether Anliang can come and take care of me when I am sick. Li Xiyan continued,"Isn't the essence of providing medicine and taking care of someone when they are sick good for a person?""
"yes."Liu Ling affirmed
"Is the essence of shopping and giving gifts good for a person?"Li Xiyan asked again.
Liu Ling couldn't deny this!
If you are not willing to be kind to someone, how can you be willing to spend money?
"yes. Liu Ling continued to respond
"So their essence is the same as being kind to people. It's just that it's easier to deliver medicine and take care of people when they are sick, so it is recognized by more people, and they feel that this method is correct. It is wrong to show kindness through money."Li Xiyan's rational analysis.
Liu Ling was silent. She had been convinced by Li Xiyan's remarks, because looking at the essence through the phenomenon, Li Xiyan really pointed out the problem to the point.
Although it is inevitable that some people will because Money makes different choices, but the choice in that case only goes against the mainstream moral values. The mainstream moral values are the moral values of most people, but are the mainstream moral values correct?
If the mainstream moral values are 100% correct , why do you need the law?
The simplest example, cheating goes against the mainstream moral values, but according to the law, it is not illegal, it is just immoral behavior.
So do you understand?
Brother Liang must be a good man who abides by the law!
