Chapter 1032 Distress

The next day, Asuka Tanaka did not come to class as she said, but everyone in the wind band club had already guessed this.

On the contrary, Duanmu Huai had a deep understanding of the consequences of a moment of pleasure, and finally explained some truth to the students like a teacher. As a result, many students came to the door the next day - well, they all just listened. Most of them were sophomores and juniors who listened to his words and went to communicate with their parents. This is normal. After all, the topic of the future is still too far away for freshmen in high school.

Some students will thank Duanmuhuai and say, "Thank you, teacher, for your advice. I feel more confident after talking with my family!"

Some students will complain to Duanmuhuai, saying, "My parents don't understand my thoughts at all..."

What can Duanmuhuai do?

He teaches physical education, not psychological counseling!

So I could only say something.

"Oh...it's so tiring."

Leaning back on the chair, Duanmu Huai felt like a frost-beaten eggplant. The little kid had a lot of troubles. Some of them Duanmu Huai could solve, but some he couldn't. After all, it is difficult for an upright official to resolve household affairs. Even Duanmuhuai cannot solve the internal conflicts of the other party's family. He can only give some ideas. As for what the other party does, Duanmuhuai has no way to control it.

"Thank you for your hard work, Teacher Duanmu."

At this moment, Long also walked over with a smile and said hello to Duanmu Huai.

"You know I'm working hard, so just do me a favor."

"I'm not very good at this."

"You just don't want to get involved."

Duanmu Huai snorted lightly. He now understood the Japanese habit quite well, which was not to interfere in other people's private affairs. To put it simply, if other people's affairs are embarrassing, it has nothing to do with you. If the other party doesn't ask for help, then you just pretend you didn't see it.

After all, they are afraid of causing trouble to others.

This is the narrow-minded national character of the Japanese.

Why does Duanmu Huai care about this? Not to mention Duanmu Huai, not all Chinese people are like this. Even if you and your wife quarrel, the neighbor next door will listen to it with interest, and will find you the next day and say to you, "I think what your wife said last night was wrong..."

How can they be like the Japanese? No matter how worried they are, as long as the other person doesn't speak, they won't act to avoid causing trouble to others. So this is why Taki is only responsible for teaching performance, but rarely interferes in the internal affairs of students. After all, although he was also worried about the internal problems of the wind band club that would affect unity, if the matter did not reach an urgent level, then he would just choose to watch on the sidelines.

After all, if you intervene rashly, it might have the opposite effect.

For Duanmu Huai, the Japanese are really nervous as hell. He prefers to solve problems in the bud, rather than pretending to be dead like these Japanese people, and only taking action to solve the problem until things get too big and can no longer be pretended. The same thing is probably true for Asuka Tanaka. Duanmuhuai estimates that unless Asuka Tanaka is really unable to attend the national competition, Taki will just turn a blind eye.

"There's nothing I can do."

Hearing the complaints in Duanmu Huai's words, Long also smiled bitterly.

"After all, I don't have Teacher Duanmu's ability."

"Okay, since I've boarded this pirate ship, just treat it as a consultant's job."

Duanmuhuai waved his hand helplessly.

After that, Taki also said goodbye and left, leaving Duanmu Huai alone in the office. After all, he was responsible for patrolling the campus. As for Maria, it seems that now he is more concerned about educating Naruse Mio to become a qualified magical girl. To be honest, , although Wan Liya shouted "Mio-sama, Mio-sama" all day long, Duanmuhuai really doubted whether Naruse Mio was just an interesting toy in Wan Liya's eyes...

"Dong dong dong."

At this moment, there was a knock on the door, and Duanmu Huai glanced at it.

"Please come in."

Soon, the door opened, and then Kumiko Huangzen walked in.

"Teacher Duanmu, I'm here to return the classroom key."

"Oh, okay, I got it."

Duanmuhuai took the key and nodded to Huang Qian Kumiko, who looked at him hesitantly.

"Teacher... Asuka-senpai's side..."

"She hasn't heard from her yet, but to be honest, I don't think it's that easy for her to convince her mother."

That kind of hysterical woman is the type that Duanmu Huai dislikes the most. She only thinks that she is right, and everyone else is a shrew who wants to harm me. The child of such a woman is really unlucky for eight lifetimes.

"That's it..."

Hearing Duanmuhuai's answer, Huangqian Kumiko lowered her head in disappointment. Then she was silent for a moment and looked at Duanmuhuai again.

"teacher………"

"Um?"

"Is what your parents want you to do necessarily the right thing to do?"

"Who knows?"

Duanmuhuai yawned and shrugged.

"What parents think is their business, and what their children think is their children's business, but who can say for sure what the future will bring? Indeed, parents have experience in life, but many times, their experience may not be able to match Up to date.”

Speaking of this, Duanmu Huai couldn't help but think of his own childhood. At that time, parents' biggest expectation for their children was to study hard, get into a good university, be assigned to a good employer and have a good job after graduation, and then have a smooth life.

It is not unreasonable for them to think so, because at that time, the number of college students was very small and very popular. A college graduate who is parachuted into the unit will be a cadre of weavers, even far higher than many people who have worked in factories all their lives. Therefore, at that time, everyone firmly believed that knowledge is power. As long as you study hard and go to a good university, you will have a bright future after graduation.

The results of it?

Who would have thought that more than ten years later, college students would be everywhere in the streets and it would be difficult to even find a job? On the contrary, those students from junior colleges who were looked down upon in those days became the backbone of the factory because of their first-hand skills? Is it easy to make money?

The goals set by parents since elementary school, but by the time I got to college I found out that it was not the same thing at all. After more than ten years of sunk costs, how could I just quit?

So I can only grit my teeth and continue to roll.

Duanmu Huai's classmates also have many such people. They gritted their teeth and graduated from college, but in the end it was difficult to find a job, or the job they found only paid three to five thousand a month. Some even had to change their education to high school. Or you can only apply for a job after graduating from a technical school, because many places no longer want college students... I feel that they have little ability and a lot of things to do.

So many times, they also complain privately. If they had known it would be like this, they might as well have fought according to their own ideas. At least they are responsible for whether they do well or not. How can they be like now, struggling to read a book by themselves? In college, it turns out that I am still earning a salary of three to five thousand, and I am as busy as a dog all day long, and I can’t complain about my parents...

"teacher?"

"oh."

Hearing Huang Qian Kumiko's voice again, Duanmu Huai came back to his senses.

"Actually, it's nothing. Well... How should I put it? What I want to say is that your parents must be good for you, so their choices are sometimes too conservative. Maybe for young people like you, breaking out A career is the best. But for parents, they just hope that their children will be free from illness and disaster, be safe and live an ordinary life. Therefore, there may be conflicts between parents and children. Because the goals are different, different perceptions arise.”

For parents, even if their children are just civil servants or company employees earning a dead salary, at least they have a serious, stable job and income that can support themselves, and they feel relieved.

For children, they want to make a name for themselves rather than just living like ordinary people.

But the risk of doing so is also very high. After all, success is heaven and failure is hell.

Even if the junior college kid next door who didn’t go to college becomes a millionaire because he is brave and careful, your parents will just stare at him and say, “They are the other people, and you are you. Just because someone else can do it doesn’t mean you can do it.” Come on, if you hadn’t gone to college, you wouldn’t even be able to find this job now, and we would still have to support you!”

Therefore, once the goals of both parties are different, their understanding of what is best will also be different.

"Thank you, teacher."

I don’t know how much Huangzen Kumiko understood, but she bowed her head obediently, then turned and left. After Duanmuhuai collected the keys, he began to inspect the school.

However, at this moment, Duanmuhuai's cell phone suddenly rang, and Duanmuhuai picked up the phone and answered the call.

"Hello?"

"Ah, uncle..."

What came from the microphone was a familiar voice.

"It's me, I'm Xiaoru."

"Oh, it's you..."

"Yes, I asked uncle for your phone number from Aiko-senpai... Sorry, did I bother you?"

"No, what do you want from me?"

"it is this………"

On the other end of the phone, Xiao Ru's voice was a little weak.

"It's just... If possible, I would like to meet with uncle..."

"Huh? Is it the same as before?"

"No... I'm the only one this time... There's something wrong with Aiko-senpai..."

"oh?"

I have to say that Duanmu Huai was stunned when he heard this. He remembered that Xiaoru didn't say that he just wanted to experience it once. What is the situation now?

Is it because my skills are too good? So you know the taste of the marrow?

But that's not bad either.

"No problem, see you at the same place then."

Although she is not a hot girl, such a well-behaved girl has her own charm, doesn't she?