Chapter 39

Chapter 39

MAYA’S LESSON TO SANJAY

Maya wanted to give a lesson to Sanjay and asked him to come to his house for a thorough post-mortem on Kumar’s issue. Maya planned to bang Sanjay for not revealing the happenings and truth to her, in time. Maya wanted to elicit total information from Sanjay.

Maya called Sanjay to his house. Maya shouted on Sanjay - What the hell is going on between my husband Kumar and that bitch Shalini?' Maya's patience was at its lowest ebb and she was ready to burst.

Sanjay knew that she was serious. 'Look, Maya. There is nothing going on between the two of them. Just a little bit of healthy flirting, I'd say.'

'Flirting? Healthy flirting? Really Sanjay, you are still making me a fool and she rolled her eyes in disgust. 'That's what you men call it? There is nothing healthy about flirting, Sanjay, not for a married man like Kumar.

I can’t change your brain as the working system is “mind default system”, which one can’t change unless the default system is uploaded with latest “Thought ware”. So, the computer system functions are by “default method” and one can’t change it so easily unless the software versions are changed by “default”. In both cases, time will change the “Mind Thought ware” and “System Software” defaults as per the research & development updates on working systems by default.

Maya told Sanjay that - Woman’s Mind Is Cleaner than Man’s. Female’s or Woman’s mind is sharper and cleaner. Women’s thinking power is also many folds than men. Man’s mind is pre-occupied on many subjects and also think more on unwarranted and unwanted matter, which are in no way useful to regular life. Man’s thinking is such that the mind cannot analyze the subject matter in detail, as women pay more attention on the subject matter with an ingenious vision and make good analysis of “what is what”, “what is happening in this world”, “how the things move in one’s family”, “where the things go wrong”, “what are the remedies for leading a good life”, “how to overcome hardships & bottlenecks”, “how a person combats his life”, “ill-effects of alcohol & drugs”, “need to help less and under-privileged children/people”, etc.

Women’s thinking power is so shrewd that they make self-advocacy in her life about the wrong deeds and wrong things & ill-effects. Therefore, the power of tongue, power of knowledge and application of mind of a women is meticulous, perfect and the application of though for solving problems, or for resolving any issues/problems shall be worked out in a planned way, which will lead to success of a woman in her life; whereas, a man may not be having such a patience as that of a woman.

Maya also told Sanjay in a very serious manner that healthy flirting is a term introduced by perverted men who want to lend legitimacy to their extramarital alliances. Flirting invariably has a sexual connotation to it.' She got up from her seat and walked around the room gesticulating and muttering something to herself. Suddenly she stopped, turned back, looked at Sanjay and asked, 'Did my husband sleep with her i.e. with Shalini? You are his friend. Did he ever tell you anything about it?'

Maya became outburst. Maya told Sanjay that – you are our family deceiver and a fraud. You are a stupid idiot and a useless fellow. You are a blunt liar. You are a dangerous cut-throat fellow. Maya could not control the things…. Maya expressed her anguish and continuously banged Sanjay. Maya wept, shouted and angered on Sanjay for keeping silent on all these days. Maya confirmed that Shalini was a class bitch and a paid keep to Kumar, which Maya could not tolerate and blasted Sanjay with, filthy, un-parliamentary & vulgar language.

Maya ferociously bombarded and banged Sanjay telling that Maya lost everything in life because of you people stupidity and big blunders. Maya told Sanjay, a waste friend and do not deserve to be a family friend. Hey Sanjay – you don’t show your face and asked him to get lost from the house. Maya told Sanjay out of great emotions and anger, Sanjay, you are a bastered and son of a bitch, you don’t deserve to be a family friend of ours.

Maya told Kumar, the following out of emotions. The reason Maya telling Kumar that most people outside gossip for nothing. She told Kumar as GOSSIP WON’T PAY.

I have on many occasions noticed about people gossiping on waste matters and unnecessary issues wasting their time, energy and money. Many people landed in trouble with this waste gossip. Even, I, on few occasions, confronted some criticisms and landed in troubles, for nothing. Therefore, I would like to bring few incidents to the knowledge of readers.

Self-boasting, gossip, waste talk, unnecessary talk on useless subjects, time pass on political discussions, employees chit-chats, house-wives discussions with neighbors’ in afternoon leisure time, do not pay and make people land in trouble. Some people try to go on speaking non-stop to highlight them as knowledgeable. Some people play politics by mud-slinging on others, for personal gains. Those who do not have work will entangle him or themselves in gossip. It is a habit to gossip with another person without which, a person will not sleep.Most people make gossip. Especially we see all employees chit-chat in offices, factories/industries/banks etc. Of course, in one way, the world of living is with gossip.

Mostly, house wives discuss on many relevant and irrelevant matters in the afternoons. In India, freedom of speech, freedom of expression, freedom of discussion and freedom of wasting time is foreseen everywhere. The average life span of a person is 60 years or could say 65 years. In this first 20-25 years goes to education line. 25-30 years goes to job settlements and marriage purpose. Rest of 30 years or 35 years is spent for children sake and employment, foreign tours, business dealings and for earning money. When these are the tight schedules where is the point for gossip time? In the mean while what will happen to life at what time is not known. The life itself is a mechanical life.There are people who won’t do job, business nor try to work for earning money. Such people do like gossiping, chit-chatting, waste discussions on some other personal, politics discussion and other discussions on gambling. Some people play gambling and gossip too much. Some people do not get sleep till such time their gossip is over.

For most of the people, the life is to enjoy all the materialistic pleasures of this world earning lot of money, having beautiful houses, farm houses, having everyday liquor parties, spending money on beloved women. But externally, these people pretend to be as if they are highly devotional and spiritual. In this process they visit Temples regularly, donate huge amounts of money to the Temples & to the deity’s and perform lot of spiritual rites. But looking at their external appearance the society could be thinking that these people were highly spiritual. But in reality, they earn the money in wrong ways, by cheating the public and the Government, robbing the money from the poor and the week people and then send huge amounts to perform various religious functions, pujas etc.

But, they are few people who really think about their life very seriously and are always in search of a person, a spiritual guy who could help them to evolve in their life spiritually and move forward beyond many dimensions. These people who are in the second category of people, ever since their birth would like to know themselves i.e. self-realization. But, unfortunately, they are surrounded by thousands of layers like an Onion and at the center of these multiple layers lies the truth, the only truth ie. The higher self. These people try very hard and climb up to higher dimension, but again they fall down because of the maya or illusion or the other forces who constantly try these people pull downwards.

All the so called gurus and sad gurus the titles given by their immature devotees are themselves covered by thousands of layers of ignorance, desires, ego, anger, falls prestige, and lot of other negative energies. If you are lucky and in the company of a real sad guru who can be compared to an Onion, will help you to shed off these layers surrounding the truth in yourself and this truth can be called as higher self or over self, athma or paramathma and there are so many names in the spiritual language. In our crest of finding out the truth, we should be very careful in selecting a proper sad guru. If you are after a materialistic desire, then you can never get any sad guru, like you need promotion for that the guru has to give you a mantra or tantra, you want your son to get first class for using some tantric powers of your guy, and you want a very big house or a farm house fat salary, all the materialistic pleasure you want in this life, then you can get any guru who is in the quantum state. The one who is in the quantum state is very pure, all of his trillions of cells in the body are very pure and their consciousness always merges with the cosmic consciousness. He is one with everyone and everyone is himself. He is above harishedvargas and his consciousness is full of love for all. He is the one who will be able to guide how to shed off the layers of illusions surrounding the truth and finding yourself in the midst of these layers of ignorance and other negative energies.

In my opinion, I prefer all of us that we should be very careful in choosing the people or gurus or guys or masters. In Tripura rahasya, Lord Dattatreya also advises his disciple Parasuram the way, the guru who could not answer simple question of his disciple is not fit to be a guru. However, silly questions the disciples have must be answered by the guru patiently in a different ways. There is nothing wrong testing the guru and it is not necessarily that he should have only one guru and could have as many as gurus like Lord Dattatreya having so many gurus who have contributed different kinds of knowledge to him. In the present era, we have to be very scientific and very logical in selecting guru and there is nothing wrong that we could also test the guru whether he is really a sad guru or not.

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