Chapter 563: crisis

Chapter 563 Crisis

"Jiang Xin, are you stupid? Qin Dazhuang treated you like this, and you actually came back to ask Xiaoxiao for money? You never thought that you would definitely not have any cents left if you took the 2,500 yuan back. Qin Dazhuang took it all away. You We are buying peace with money, but the question is, can we buy peace?

If Qin Dazhuang is very ambitious, he thinks you can get money from your mother's family. In the future, it will be even worse for you and your children. Then you will come back to get money every time? How much money does your family have to fill your hole? "

Jiang Yue hates the fact that iron cannot become steel, so this sister shouldn’t think too much about it.

Qin Dazhuang has become like this, and Jiang Xin must also be held responsible.

Jiang Xin smiled bitterly, "Of course I know that, but what can I do? This life has to go on. The children are still young now. I just hope that the children will be older. They will all go to college. My task is also Just done.

Of course it won't be like this anymore. The only excuse Qin Dazhuang can make is the two thousand and five thousand. For the rest, he is not a man who has to rely on his mother-in-law's family to support him. He doesn't have the face to say this.

　　What else can I do besides endure the beating? Women live like this all their lives. "

　　The tone of resignation made Jiang Xiaoqi’s teeth itch.

“Since life is like this, second sister, let’s get divorced.”

 Jiang Xin was startled by one sentence.

"Divorce? No, no! If a divorced woman returns to her parents' home, her parents will be laughed at. Our parents and mom are finally living a more comfortable life now. You all live such a good life. If I get divorced, Back at her parents' house, people mentioned that Jiang Xiaoxiao had a divorced sister.

 Your face looks beautiful! Jiang Lei is not married yet. If there is a divorced sister with children at home, think about it, who would dare to marry into our family? It's enough for me to harm myself, how can I harm my family members. "

Jiang Xin’s face turned pale with fright.

Divorce was a very shameful thing in the 1980s. Many people discriminated against and looked down upon divorced women and their natal families.

Jiang Xin’s concerns are indeed the concerns of all women in this era.

    I am more worried about the discriminatory looks and gossips from people in society.

Jiang Yue slapped Jiang Xiaoxiao on the back, which was so light that he couldn't even kill a mosquito.

Even rolled his eyes.

 Explanation of Jiang Xiaoxiao’s dissatisfaction.

"Eldest sister, don't look at me like that. What I said is the truth. If you can't get through life, you have to live with humiliation. What are you trying to do? Qin Dazhuang is starting to beat the second sister now. If he waits until the child grows up, at least he will still have a child. Over ten years.

 Have you ever thought about it? If the second sister is beaten for more than ten years, can she survive this kind of life? Let me further assume that the second sister just endured it in order to bear the humiliation. For example, in the past ten years or so, one day I was suddenly beaten to the point where I couldn't bear it any longer. That kind of anger had been building up in my heart until it suddenly burst out at a certain point.

Then he killed Qin Dazhuang directly, and finally went to jail himself. Is this the result you want? Although everyone is full of sympathy for the second sister, it is absolutely impossible that the matter of going to jail will not exist because of sympathy for you. Because of sympathy for you, it can be treated as if it did not happen.

 Second sister, have you ever thought about what it would be like without two children, or are you prepared to endure it for the rest of your life? Are you going to live like this for the rest of your life being beaten by him until you are old? You take other people's gossip very seriously, but do you live for others?

Who knew you were living so hard and difficult, who knew you were bruised and bruised every day and secretly fell asleep with tears in your eyes. Just for the sake of other people's eyes and living in other people's gossip, why do you have to endure it like this? Do you think people should live like this in their lives? "

Jiang Xiao’s novel is a classic case. Many women who have been subjected to domestic violence are shocked when the violence breaks out.

　　Either there is a word, or it breaks out in silence, or it dies in silence.

Jiang Xin shook his head, "It's not as serious as you said. Who would live a happy life without fighting and making trouble? After all, he is the child's father. Although I think it's wrong for him to hit someone, I still feel the same every time he hits me. You will feel that you want to kill him, but the child is still so young. If the father is really gone, how will I live as a woman with a child?

 Children without fathers will be looked down upon when they go to school and work in the future. I've been like this myself, and I can survive through humiliation. But we can't harm the children too. "

Jiang Xin is still a traditional housewife. She has no fundamental understanding of men hitting women. She just thinks it is a simple matter between husband and wife.

 The parties involved didn’t take it seriously at all.

 “What about Ladi and Zhaodi?”

Jiang Xin said strangely, "They are both fine. This matter has nothing to do with them. I will protect them and prevent them from being beaten by your brother-in-law."

 She did everything a mother should do. In order to protect her children, she was beaten so badly by Qin Dazhuang.

“La Di and Zhao Di saw their mother being beaten and kicked by their father every day, living in hell. When they grow up, will they still dare to get married? Will the fear in their hearts allow them to get married?

This kind of shadow will make them fear men all their lives, have no sense of security, and do not believe in the so-called married life in this world. What the second sister hopes is that after they are raised, they will never get married because of their fear of their husbands and fear of marriage. This is what you want. "

 Speaking of children, Jiang Xin's inner weakness was immediately touched.

 “No, it’s impossible…I’m not…I…”

Jiang Xin choked with sobs. The fear in her heart made her anxious. For the first time, she realized that maybe her thoughts were simple.

Jiang Yue held down Jiang Xiaoxiao and continued.

"Jiang Xin, although what Xiaoxiao said is a bit exaggerated, you must face up to the problem he said. You can tolerate it for yourself, but have you ever thought about whether the children want to see such parents living together.

And the problem you mentioned is not a problem with Qin Dazhuang at all. He is not just a problem of beating people now. There must be an explanation as to where the money he and you took was spent. As a couple living together, it is impossible to say that he took the money unilaterally and did not inform you of the use of the money.

If he has some bad habits, I won’t say whether he has gender issues. Let’s talk about the simplest question, if he gambles with other people outside. Or do something bad.

Then this is not something you can just endure for a while, I'm afraid this life will be in dire straits. You simply think that you can endure it for a while, but then one day he goes crazy with gambling.

Even his wife and children can lose to others at the table. In his mind, his two daughters are losers and he doesn't pay any attention to them at all. Then he may directly give the two children to others to pay off the debt.

 At that time, do you think you can protect two children by yourself? "

Jiang Xin almost fell down.

 Yeah, what if Qin Dazhuang learned to gamble now.

What about their mother and daughter?

 (End of this chapter)