Chapter 749: Raising children is not an easy job
Chapter 749 Raising children is not an easy job
Jiang Xin was helpless. She was not a fool and could not see what Qin Dazhuang was thinking.
Not to mention, Qin Dazhuang has been completely different from before in recent years.
Although Qin Dazhuang did not gamble in the past, he was not a responsible man. He was the kind of person who took things easy and lived a stable life. At best, he was honest and down-to-earth, but at worst, he was unmotivated.
But Jiang Xin is different. After starting a business, her vision and mind are different. What she sees will make people have different requirements for their future life.
If it were still the same Qin Dazhuang, he would never have fallen into Jiang Xin's eyes, but he didn't expect that Qin Dazhuang would also make rapid progress.
Qin Dazhuang's current changes are indeed surprising.
“Not today! My mother asked us to take the children back for dinner. My uncle is back, so we can all get together. Next week.”
Jiang Xin knew that Qin Dazhuang looked forward to the day when he could take his daughters out every week, and she did not want Qin Dazhuang to be disappointed. After all, he was the father of the children, and she had never thought of letting the children hate this father.
She couldn't help but feel complicated. Qin Dazhuang's changes were really confusing.
Divorce was inevitable at first, but now Qin Dazhuang is also very surprising.
Not only does he no longer gamble or hit others, he has returned to the Qin Dazhuang he was before, and he is even better than before.
Patient, gentle and tolerant, and responsible.
The same thing is the ability to do many things.
Jiang Xin didn’t know what she wanted.
"Uncle is back. Okay, then you take the kids back to get together with your family. It's okay. I'll pick them up next week. You wait first while I go get the things in the car and buy them for the kids. Some stationery and clothes.
I also bought some nutritional supplements for my mother...aunts and uncles. I originally said that I would bring them back after they left. Since they won't go over, I'll hand it over to you directly. "
Qin Dazhuang ran out in a hurry. After a while, big and small bags came over carrying two big bags of things. One bag was for stationery, snacks and clothes for the children.
The other package contains nutritional supplements.
Jiang Xin complained, "Why do you buy these things for them again? You buy these two children clothes every week and they can't wear them at all. It's the time when they are growing. They grow taller in a few months. You bought so much There are too many clothes, and many new ones are put away without even having time to wear them.”
Qin Dazhuang quickly spoiled his two daughters.
“It’s because the children grow up so fast that I have to buy them more clothes. I know that I will definitely not spend money like this next time.”
Qin Dazhuang also knew that he doted on his two daughters to the heavens.
But he had no choice. When he saw those clothes and beautiful stationery, he couldn't help but think of his two daughters, and he couldn't help but buy them for them.
Every time it was shopping, others were mothers buying clothes for their daughters, and as a father, he was the only thing he could do for his children.
"The children are getting older now, and you have to pay attention to your methods. Buying so many things, the two children were spoiled. Many things began to be less and less cherished. When they went to school, they showed off their stationery to teachers and classmates. Well, how nice are their clothes.
They don’t take their studies seriously and always compete with others for food and clothing. If this continues, the two children will really be taught something wrong. I am also doing it for their own good. You have to think more about how to teach them.
Don’t just want to pamper them blindly. If you spoil them like this when they grow up, they will develop the habit of being high-minded and low-handed. In the future, there will be big problems in getting along with others when you go out.
Besides, we are just an ordinary family, and you have to teach your children to be frugal. You forgot that when my grandpa and grandma got into trouble, it was because of my uncle’s lavish spending. The trouble is brought about because the family is rich. If you think about it, if it is really for their own good, you should teach them to be low-key. "
Jiang Xin didn't say these words, and she felt unhappy. The main reason was that her two daughters had changed too much.
The teacher has communicated with himself that the two children are not as hardworking as before in terms of study, and they often compete with their classmates for food and clothing. If this continues, the two children will really make detours.
Qin Dazhuang was full of regret. After hearing this, he sincerely admitted his mistake.
"It's my fault. I didn't think about how to do this. I just thought that the children were not here with me, so I should love them more. But I didn't think about anything else. Don't worry, I know what to do in the future."
Jiang Xin softened her tone a lot when she saw that Qin Dazhuang could listen.
“Okay, go back quickly. I’ll pick them up from school in a while and head over there directly.”
Jiang Xin took the keys and got into the car.
Last year she bought a Xiali.
Sometimes it is more convenient to deliver goods to customers’ doors. This car is more convenient.
Qin Dazhuang watched Jiang Xin leave and stood at the car door and sighed. He didn't think about anything well. It looked like he had messed up even educating his children.
If they continue to toss like this, these two children will probably grow up to be arrogant young ladies. The question is what kind of family they are. Although the couple is rich now, no matter how rich they are, they are still ordinary people and cannot raise their children. Be like that.
They are still young now, so of course it doesn't matter to them, but when they grow up in the future, whether they get along with others or get married, they marry into their mother-in-law's family.
Is it possible for the whole family to pamper you like a rich lady? That is definitely impossible.
Getting along with others cannot be measured solely in terms of money.
Qin Dazhuang has experienced many things and has long been able to see through them.
The most important thing about a person is his or her character, which cannot be measured by money.
If the future son-in-law is interested in daughters and their natal family’s money, then I’m afraid their character is not very good.
If money is not important, but character and character are important, then the two daughters must be educated well.
No matter from what point of view, character should be the most important thing in a daughter’s family.
Drove back to the hot pot restaurant.
The dinner was not confiscated yet, so he originally thought that when his daughter came back, they could have dinner here, and then he would take the children home and help them with their homework while chatting with them about the day.
He was going to take the children to the amusement park tomorrow, so he told the store manager that he would not come for the past two days.
But I had nowhere to go for a while, so of course I went back to the store.
As soon as I entered the store, I saw the manager running over in a panic.
“Xiao Zhang, why are you so nervous? Did something happen in the store?”
Looking at Xiao Zhang’s appearance, something must have happened.
Xiao Zhang whispered, "Boss, an old lady and a woman came just now. I must say it's your mother and your eldest sister. They were making trouble at the door and insisted on seeing you. I just asked someone to go to your house to find you, but you were not at home. I don't know what to do either.
Because the old lady insisted on me taking two hundred yuan from the counter, saying that it came from the car they hired. It’s not that I disagreed. The two people were making a fuss there. "
Qin Dazhuang's heart skipped a beat.
(End of this chapter)
