Chapter 7843: Fortune favors fools
Chapter 7843 Stupid people have stupid blessings
Gu Yiman looked at Xie Hewu in surprise.
She didn't expect that Xie Hewu would have such thoughts, and she would be sad.
Seeing Gu Yiman's surprised eyes, Xie Hewu smiled and rubbed her hair: "It's nothing to be surprised, this is a convention that has been passed down for thousands of years, of course I can disobey these conventions and even ignore them, but What about my brother's future wives?
I am a married woman, and I am bossing them as a master. What do you think they will think? "
"It doesn't have to be bossy," Gu Yiman said, "Wouldn't it be nice for everyone to live together peacefully?"
"Yeah, it's good to live in peace," Xie Hewu said, "but, there is still a degree in this.
For example, when I was not married, I was the owner of the family, and I could represent the Xie family whenever a woman needed to come forward.
But if I get married and my brother marries a wife, then, what are the occasions where the Xie family needs to show up? You say, is it me, or my brother's wife? "
Gu Yi Satisfied: "…"
Looking at Gu Yiman's clean eyes, Xie Hewu laughed and rubbed her head again: "Of course you don't have any troubles in this regard, you don't like to show your face.
But what if it is a strong personality?
Like me, now, both of my younger brothers listen to me.
If, in the future, they get married and I get married, the Xie family will still have the final say. Do you think they will feel comfortable? "
She sighed: "I don't want to admit that a married daughter is the water thrown out.
However, if the married daughter does not regard herself as the water thrown out, but still regards herself as the master of the family as before, it is easy to have conflicts with her sister-in-law and younger siblings.
Therefore, it is very important to grasp this degree well. Don’t treat yourself as an outsider too much, but don’t treat yourself as an outsider too much either. "
Gu Yi Satisfied: "…"
She doesn't quite agree with her sister's point of view, but she doesn't know how to refute it.
Seeing her tangled face, Xie Hewu smiled and pinched her cheek: "You don't have to be so frowning, you don't have such troubles.
You said, in your life, you will either not marry or marry Brother Yue.
If you don’t marry in your whole life, then it goes without saying that you will be the darling of your aunt and uncle all your life, and your eldest cousin also raised you as a daughter, so he will definitely spoil you for the rest of his life.
And the cousins are shrewd and can definitely handle the relationship between you and their wives.
If you marry Brother Yue, then you have remarried from your natal family and back to your natal family, you are still the master, not the water that was poured out, why do you have to worry about it? "
"Sister, I think you are wrong," Gu Yiman said, "According to your argument, Brother Yue is still an adopted son!
You know that in the eyes of many people, adopted sons have no status.
Although our family is different, others may not know it! "
"Are you stupid?" Xie Hewu looked at her like a fool, "Is Brother Yue an ordinary adopted son? Brother Yue is the future head of the Xiang family, right?
Go ask and find out, who would dare not take the future owner of the Xiang family seriously? "
Gu Yiman: "...Yes, I always forgot Brother Yue's surname Xiang..."
Xie Hewu knocked on her forehead: "Otherwise, how can you say you are stupid! But... it's not bad, stupid people have stupid blessings!"
Gu Yi Satisfied: "…"
She should be complimenting her as her sister!
(end of this chapter)
